The Top 10 States That I Have Been To

I have been to 43 out of the 50 states in the US, and I always wanted to sit down and figure out my list of the top 10 that i’ve been to so far. So I finally did that, and here it is. I didn’t count my home state of Connecticut because i’ve lived here my whole life, so I cant really count that as a state i’ve traveled to, and once I have gone to all 50 states, I am sure that this list will look a little different and include at least 4 or 5 new states being replaced by some of the ones on here, but for now, here is the best of what my eyes have seen in this country and why:


10.) New Jersey:

Ah….New Jersey…the “Garden” state…AKA the BIGGEST misnomer in this country…comparing New Jersey to anything as beautiful and non-polluted as a garden would be quite similar to calling Seattle “The Sunshine City” or labeling Florida “The Snowshoe State”. I have had a viscous grudge with New Jersey for pretty much my entire life, and literally have nearly vomited and cried at the same time every time i pass through that part of state right on the other side of the river from Manhattan. I always thought to myself that this must be the worst place in t he entire country…that nothing could possibly look worse than this, and that I never want to come back here again.  However, what I failed to realize all those years is that New Jersey does have other parts of the state that look like a completely different country compared to the Newark area. There are parts that people from better states actually come to to vacation at, and recently, I had gone to these places for the first time, and it completely changed my mind about the “armpit” of America. Once you are out of the mess of the Newark area and start to head south, you notice a drastic change almost immediately. Get off the NJ turnpike and the Garden State Parkway because you’ll never see the hidden gems this state has to offer while driving on the highway. As you head further down the coast, you go through many cute towns, but the main reason why NJ has slipped into my top 10 is because of its boardwalks. I have never had as much fun of a time somewhere and have felt like a kid again as much as when I vacationed in the south Jersey shore the past two summers. Seaside Heights, Wildwood, and Ocean City are now 3 of my favorite places in the entire country, and they all happen to be about within an hour of one another. Cape May, down at the southern tip of the shore, is a perfect example of how some things simply just get better with age. The entire town is a National Historic District, and showcases almost 600 preserved Victorian buildings, which line nearly every street, with rocking chairs ready for tired tourists to relax on their front porches.  I will gladly fist pump my way up and down these boardwalks anytime, and every single night I’m sitting at home with nothing to do, I secretly wish I was still on the Jersey shore in the midst of all the hype. Although I have seen some beautiful beaches, great people watching hot-spots, and historic towns, I have still yet to see one thing anywhere in the “garden” state….a garden.

9.) Pennsylvania:

The keystone state overall is what i like to call “shitty cute”. Most of the towns in Pennsylvania are nothing special, just simple small towns with a main street and some antique stores and coffee shops and things of that nature, but that is exactly why I like this state, because in other states that I don’t like as much, such as it’s neighbor Ohio, these same type of towns can be found but they are a lot more run down and much more unappealing. Somehow, Pennsylvania manages to make it’s “shitty”….”cute”, and I definitely appreciate it. These types of towns that I love can be found all over the state, but in addition to that, PA has an impressive college town in State College (where Penn State University is) and beautiful scenery and hills throughout its entire state. PA fails to reach higher on my list for a few reasons: 1.) it’s a very long, boring drive to drive through from east to west and it never seems to end. 2.) its big cities (Philly and Pittsburgh) are decent but nothing special and 3.) most of the state smells like cow shit from all the farms. However, I enjoy many things about this state, from its funny town names (such as Intercourse, Blue Ball, Bird-in-Hand, and Virginville), to seeing Amish people drive their horse n buggies right along side cars on the road. My favorite beer’s brewery, Yuengling, also happens to be here, and it is the oldest brewery in the country. One of my favorite bars, The Darkhorse, is in Philly, and even though Philly has a lot of sketchy, terrible sections, it does have some pretty fantastic places to eat and drink. So overall, PA deserves a spot on my top 10 because it is what it is and doesn’t pretend to be anything that it’s not, and I respect it for that.

8.) Massachusetts:

MA definitely deserves a spot on my top 10 for the simple reason that is one of the only places in the country where you can walk down a major city and still feel like you’re 400 years in the past. Boston is one of the most unique and amazing cities in the country for this reason alone, because somehow one of the biggest cities in the northeast doesn’t even really feel like a city at all, but more of a mix of a huge college town and a lot of beautiful, colonial buildings on cobblestone streets. While a city like New York City just destroys the old to keep building new bigger and better things, Boston cherishes its past and does whatever it can to keep it in tact. This can be seen all over the city, from Fenway Park to the North End to Beacon Street. Massachusetts is more than just Boston though, and the other parts of the state have much to offer. Western MA is very woodsy and scenic and a drive along the Mohawk Trail is one of the prettiest drives you can take in all of New England. Cape Cod has perhaps some of the most breathtaking coastline on the Atlantic and many small, cute coastal towns to accompany it. Massachusetts makes me proud to be from the northeast, and everything that New York City lacks in, Boston showcases proudly, which is why MA is number 8 on my list and New York never even had a chance of being close.

7.) Michigan:

This is another state, much like New Jersey, that I shit on and made fun of constantly until I actually checked out the nice areas instead of just the bad ones. The “mitten” is very unique in many ways, especially for its geographic location. Nothing compares to it anywhere in the midwest; in an area of the country that is mostly just farms, Michigan manages to have more coastline that probably California even does, since it borders 4 of the 5 great lakes. Fittingly called “the great lake state”, some of the most beautiful beaches I have been to are found along the shores of Lake Michigan and Lake Superior, and best of all, they don’t smell half as bad as the ocean does, but are still just as pretty! Michigan is broken into two different parts, and the upper peninsula (known as the UP) is a whole different world than the southern part. The UP is one of the most rustic and naturally beautiful places I’ve been to, and reminds me more of a place I would find in Alaska or Canada or really north upstate New York than anywhere in the midwest. In addition to all the natural beauty, Michigan also has many very cute towns, such as Holland and Saugatuck, and one of my favorite college towns in the country, Ann Arbor, which is just a very impressive and fun place overall, perfect for anyone in their 20s. Sure, Michigan has gotten a bad rep in the news, and Detroit is…well, Detroit, and is probably the worst, most run down city in the country, but I am willing to overlook that major eyesore to take in the entire picture, and Michigan, when I ignore the fact that the motor city is in your state, I realize that your state is not so bad after all, and especially for being in the midwest, you have the most beautiful scenery by far in that area of the country. The people of Michigan are tough and are hard workers, times are rough there but if anyone can bounce back, I know Michigan can and will, and I wish them all the best.

6.) North Carolina:

North Carolina is pretty much a western state that somehow got misplaced and put on the east coast. No state on the eastern half of the country should have mountains as beautiful as NC, yet somehow western North Carolina does an amazing job at pretending it is part of the Rocky Mountains and borders Montana and Wyoming and Colorado, because it parallels the beauty of those types of states. The Blue Ridge Parkway is by far one of the most scenic drive in all of America, and goes through some of the most picturesque parts of the state, then drops you off right into the neat little mountain town of Asheville. Even more impressive though, is that NC is a very diverse state. Not only does it have these beautiful mountains and woods, it also has pretty much every other type of landscape you can imagine except for a desert. NC has tons of beautiful coastline, and also a area known as the triangle, which includes Chapel Hill, Durham, and Raleigh, which is an area full of fun college towns, nightlife, and things to do. There are also many other unique towns such as Southern Pines, Wilmington, and Greensboro, all worth checking out. Not too many states have mountains and scenery this impressive but also are on a coast, it’s not even too far fetched to say that in some ways, North Carolina can be compared to a California of the East coast, so this special reason is why North Carolina will always hold a special place in my heart, and is the true gem of the Atlantic.

5.) Arizona:

Dry…Hot…Silence…Serenity…Unworldly…Perfection. What I have experienced in my travels in the deserts and mountains of Arizona are beyond words, ergo, whatever is written in this blog will do my experiences no justice, because even a published poet and writer such as myself cannot describe the beautiful mix of tranquility and madness, the perfect blend of calm and chaos, the equilibrium of ugly and utopia, that I encountered in this state. In a nutshell, one must experience what I have for themselves in order to fully appreciate it, but I can only hope that these words will offer enough evidence to prove to you that some of the most amazing natural places in the entire world can be found right in the grand canyon state. With one of the world’s largest and most colorful concentrations of petrified wood, multi-hued badlands of the Painted Desert, historic structures, archeological sites, and displays of over 200-million-year-old fossils, petrified forest national park is a surprising land of scenic wonders and fascinating science. This place is called “the painted desert” for a reason; the hills look like someone took a paintbrush and went over them with various shades of reds, oranges, blues, and grays. I said to myself that this was the most beautiful place I have ever been to, and that was true until I drove a little up north to the Grand Canyon. When I walked to the cliff’s edge and saw the canyon spread out before my eyes for the first time, my jaw literally drop and I shook my head in disbelief as a tear of joy fell from my eye, because nothing this beautiful should even exist on this planet, it’s simply just not fair. Honestly, the Grand Canyon is probably just as big as or maybe even bigger than my entire home state of Connecticut, and it by far was one of the most beautiful places my eyes have ever laid upon. I was amazed at how drastically different the climate, scenery, and landscape alters in Arizona by just driving a little over an hour up north. In southern and central Arizona, there are many cactuses and sand covered mountains, yet up north, in Flagstaff and above, I felt like I was right back at home in New England or upstate New York, because of all the pine trees, greenery, snow covered mountains (yes, in June), and quaint little mountain towns. The beauty and diversity of Arizona impressed me a lot and I can definitely see why many people come here to live after they retire. My only complaint about Arizona was that while I was in Phoenix, it seemed to me that most of the people there were really rude and mean, and they honestly reminded me a lot like new yorkers, so that was a big turn off for me, and the city of Phoenix wasn’t anything special anyways, so that thorn in the state’s side is the reason why it lands at number 5 in my spot, because honestly it would probably be in the top 3 if it wasn’t for my bad experiences in the state’s capitol. But putting that aside and looking at the state as a whole, it’s natural beauty and uniqueness are unparalleled to anywhere else in this country. Out here, I was able to clear my head, but it was only filled with more questions about the origins of the planet, because I do not think that things this beautiful were made by accident over time; I think that some sort of a God out there must be an amazing artist, and He used the southwest, especially Arizona, as His canvas.

4.) Utah:

Utah is much like Arizona, which makes sense since they border each other both on the map as well as on my list of my ten favorite states i’ve been to. What makes Utah a tad more appealing to me over Arizona though, is that it’s even more diverse and has even more of a “wow” factor to it. Coming to Utah for the first time, you quickly notice that they have the most beautiful of all the state welcome signs, with an awesome license plate to match it, a stunning picture of the Delicate Arch, which happens to be the reason why I went to go visit Utah in the first place. Utah may not be a destination for many, but it was for me, because I have always wanted to visit Arches National Park, perhaps more than any other place in this country. On the drive into Moab, as well as around Arches National Park, the scenery looks more like something you’d find on Mars than on our own planet, with all of the red rocks, mountains, and sand surrounding the area. The 1.5 mile hike to the delicate arch was well worth it in the 90 degree heat, after nearly passing out and thinking you’re not going to make it, all of a sudden as soon as you turn a corner it is right there in full display right in front of you in all of its glory. It is by far the most beautiful thing I’ve seen on this planet, even more-so that the grand canyon. The word “delicate” is appropriate for it because it’s a miracle how this thing is even standing, and I don’t want to admit it, but I wouldn’t be surprised if this thing crumbled to the ground during my lifetime. Utah is a state I have only been to for a few days out of my entire life, and I have only been to one corner of it, so there is still 75 percent of the state I have yet to explore, yet Utah is number 4 on my list, shouldn’t that tell you something? This state is amazing, unique, epic, and not like anywhere else on this planet.

3.) Maine:

Maine deserves a spot on my top 3 because of how rugged and badass the state is, while still managing to be “cute” at the same time. I have no idea how something can be both intimidating yet adorable, but Maine manages to do it. I like to call Maine the Alaska of the east coast, and I believe that to be a pretty accurate assessment. Maine makes me proud to be a New Englander, and this is definitely a state I will live in for awhile at some point later in life. The whole coastline of the state along the shore is filled with cute little towns and fishing villages, the type of places you see on postcards. There’s a reason why Maine is called “Vacationland.” It possesses a unique natural setting, which is comprised of a spectacular coast and a woodsy, mountainous interior, and is by far one of the most diverse states in this country. Southern Maine, has beaches, resort communities, and cosmopolitan cities, which is poles apart from the northern part, where forests and farms are plentiful. All within one day, one can hike the White Mountains, then have dinner in Portland, which is known as the “most-livable city.” and the “foodiest small town in America”. One can also shop in the nationally known outlets of Freeport and then go for a whale watch right afterwards, or visit a fine art museum in Rockland right after watching painters create masterpieces on a rugged mountain. Maine has the largest bear population in the lower 48 states, yet also has an inn that was called one of the best in the world. The state is home to some of the best skiing in the East, the finest sailing waters this side of the Mediterranean, world-renowned parks, two of America’s best art museums, internationally known shopping areas, award-winning restaurants, dozens of National Historic Landmarks, extraordinary beaches, exceptional kayaking, antique stores, nationally ranked golf courses, moose safaris and whale watching trips, and the best National Park in the eastern half of the country, Acaida National Park, in Bar Harbor, which is a cute little town right on an island with amazing scenery surrounding it. To sum things up, this state has it all, which makes it impossible not to like it, because it has something for everyone, and makes me proud to be from the north east.

2.) Colorado:

Colorful Colorado possesses a stunning, unique, and diverse natural landscape and some of the most impressive scenic beauty in the country, including the highest sand dunes in North America, to 54 mountain peaks over 14,000 feet. All in one day’s drive, one can pass through emerald green forests, fields of vibrant wildflowers, picturesque mountain lakes, abundant grasslands and rich red rock formations. There are four national parks, five national monuments and 42 state parks, and also 25 scenic and historic byways, including going through ghost towns, ancient ruins, alpine tundra, and mountain passages. Whether you’re looking for big cities or small mountain towns, Colorado offers many unique experiences. Boulder is one of my favorite college towns in the country and definitely a place I can picture settling down someday, Denver is a solid big city with lots of entertaining things to do, Estes Park is a cute mountain town at the base of Rocky Mountain National Park, and Aspen and Breckenridge are beautiful little skiing towns. Also a side note, the first ever Quiznos is located in Denver, and that happens to be one of my favorite places to eat, so bonus points for Colorado giving birth to such an amazing sandwich shop. This state almost has it all and is 99 percent perfect, the only reason why it is not number 1 on my list is because it is not near an ocean, so the top spot on my list goes to a state that has an incredible amount of some of the most beautiful coastline in the country.

1.) California:

What makes a place good enough to be labeled “perfect”; is it the scenery, the people, the cities, the nightlife, the location, all of the above? Well, there is no such thing as “perfect”, but the closest thing to it that I have ever seen is California. I have been “California Dreaming” since I was a kid, and finally at 22 years old, my dreams became true. San Francisco is by far the most beautiful and amazing city I have ever been to and I would definitely love living there someday, no place has ever felt like home to me as much as the Bay Area has. California has 3 of the best and most impressive cities in the country, along with many national parks, close to 1,000 miles of beautiful coastline, impressive mountains, and much more. In fact, California is the only place I have been to where the landscape drastically changes so often. California has the ocean and beaches, it has the desert, it has snow covered mountains, forests, it has big cities, small rustic towns, pretty much any type of environment you can think of can be found here, so with everything imaginable within the golden state’s borders, why ever leave? A very interesting thing happened to me while I was coming into California from Nevada; the state sign was missing so there was no official “Welcome to California” sign when I arrived! Obviously, this made me upset at first because my goal is to get my picture next to all 50 state signs, but California would have to wait till the day I actually left the state. But then I thought of the symbolism behind this; I will be seeing “welcome to California” the moment I am actually leaving the state, which to me shows that even though I am leaving for now, I am truly welcome back there whenever I wish, and that I never have to really say “goodbye” to the Golden State, just like how the line in the famous Eagles “Hotel California” song goes…”you can check out anytime you like, but you can never leave” and I would be just fine with that. The beaches, the mountains, the forest, the hills, the big cities, the little towns, the food, the climate, the location…all these things make California amazing…but especially the people, their personalities and laid back attitudes, is what truly makes this state as close to perfect as one will ever find. I’ve been an East coast resident my entire life, and even though I have only been to California  for a total of 15 days or so, the Atlantic has nothing on the Pacific; the west coast is where it’s truly at, and California makes it hard to come back home and have it truly feel like home here anymore. California, I will be back soon, but until then, I’ll miss you and you’ll be in my dreams until I can make you become a reality again.

1California
2Colorado
3Maine
4Utah
5Arizona
6North Carolina
7 Michigan
8 Massachusetts
9 Pennsylvania
10 New Jersey

honorable mentions: texas, georgia, indiana, florida, south dakota

thanks for reading everyone, feel free to comment on your favorite states and why too!

Travel Blog: Fist Pumping My Way Down the South Jersey Shore

Ah….New Jersey…the “Garden” state…AKA the BIGGEST misnomer in
this country…comparing New Jersey to anything as beautiful and
non-polluted as a garden would be quite similar to calling Seattle
“The Sunshine City” or labeling Florida “The Snowshoe State”. I have
had a viscous grudge with New Jersey for pretty much my entire life,
and literally have nearly vomited and cried at the same time every
time i pass through that part of state right on the other side of the
river from Manhattan. I always thought to myself that this must be the
worst place in t he entire country…that nothing could possibly look
worse than this, and that I never want to come back here again. And
for the most part…i still believe that to be true, but what I failed
to realize all those years is that New Jersey does have other parts of
the state that look like a completely different country compared to
the Newark area. I decided that if I wanted to settle this
dis-pleasant distaste for the state once and for all, that I would
have to explore the parts of it that I have never been to…the “nice”
areas that I have heard tales of in stories and seen on TV…the
places that people from better states actually come to to vacation
at….the New Jersey that I have never seen with my own two eyes.

Usually when I travel I favor either the big cities or college towns, yet this trip was mainly focused on about half a dozen beach towns, which was a nice change of pace, especially since the weather was perfect for catching some sun and sand. The first place my girlfriend and I visited was Seaside Heights, which is famously known as the town where the MTV show “Jersey Shore” is filmed, and upon arrival, we quickly realized that literally everyone on the boardwalk looked like clones of the characters on the show. It amused me to see such
carnival games as “shoot the Guido” lining the boardwalk, and every
single souvenir shop proudly displayed various “fist pumping” t shirts
and various Italian flag decorated items. At the time I didn’t know
it, but this ended up being the smallest boardwalk we went to, yet the
amount of action and fun it manages to pack in its tiny frame really
impressed me. Seaside Heights reminded me on first look of a much
better version of Coney Island in New York City, and we strolled up and down the boardwalk checking out the various amusement piers, water park, wall-to-wall arcades, restaurants, and shops. The highlight of our time there was having our palms read by a very elderly and adorable woman fortune teller, who told us we would live until we were 99 and have very fulfilling, beautiful lives, and going to Berkeley Sweet Shop to watch (and sample) some saltwater taffy pulling. After enjoying people watching for a few hours, we decided to head on further south to our next destination.


Shortly after, we arrived at Barnegat Light, which is a quaint tiny
borough and was selected as one of 21 nominees for “America’s Coolest
Small Towns” from coast to coast, and is located at the northern end of Long Beach Island. The town’s most famous resident is “Old Barney,” which is the red and white-banded Barnegat Lighthouse located at Long
Beach Island’s northern tip. Standing at 172 feet tall, this is the second tallest lighthouse in the United States, and we climbed up the spiral staircase to the top and marveled at some breathtaking views of both the beach and the Atlantic Ocean. We then drove on further south to Smithville, which has a historic shopping area that reminded me greatly of Mystic Village back in my home state of Connecticut. We
walked around and peeked into a few of the cute little shops there and made our way to Atlantic City for the night. Before I even got out of the car, I took one quick look at the approaching Atlantic City skyline and thought to myself that this is merely just a Las Vegas with a beach, and Sin City is one of my least favorite places in the US, so I didn’t have great expectations coming here. However, as we
parked and began walking around the boardwalk, it wasn’t so bad after all. It was by far the dirtiest and sketchiest of the boardwalk towns we went to, but it wasn’t anything unbearable. On the boardwalk here is the only place on the entire trip I saw homeless people and beggars coming up to tourists, and here is the only boardwalk that was lined with that stereotypical trash and pollution that has tarnished the
state’s reputation. As much as Atlantic City didn’t phase me, I still don’t have too much to complain about it, other than it was probably the most boring of the boardwalks we went to. Sure, the skyscrapers and casinos were pretty and fancy and nice, but i’m from Connecticut and have Mohegan Sun and Foxwoods in my back yard so i’m pretty spoiled. We enjoyed a moonlit stroll on the boardwalk and checked out the historic Steel Pier before retiring to our hotel, and quickly checked out the area again early the next morning. Before leaving, we
watched a Michael Jackson impersonator dancing on stage and we tried some fried Twinkies and Oreos, and fed our leftovers to a bunch of seagulls surrounding us. We grabbed lunch at the famous White House Sub Shop in downtown Atlantic City, where the submarine sandwich was invented, and after devouring our monstrous meals, we headed down to Margate City, and took some pictures with the world’s largest elephant and America’s oldest roadside attraction, Lucy, who was built in 1881 and still stands along the shore today as a national historic landmark.



The entire afternoon was spent in Ocean City, which ended up being a
pleasant surprise since it wasn’t even on my itinerary of places to
see, and it ended up being my favorite overall stop on the entire
trip. Here, we finally did what we’ve been meaning to do at a beach
for the entire trip and just set up a couple towels, relaxed, caught
some rays, and occasionally went into the water to cool off. After
realizing that my pale Eastern European body was getting too much of a
sunburn, we decided to abandon the beach and to check out the
boardwalk. The Travel Channel named Ocean City as the #1 family beach
in the entire country, and one quick look around town proves that to
be an obvious choice. There are over two miles of boardwalk stretching
along the coast here, and among the many noticeable attractions here
is Wonderland Pier, which is a neat amusement park for kids. We
checked out the dozens of souvenir shops lining the boardwalk, and we
bought some t-shirts and a framed painting from a local artist.


By early evening we drove down further down the coast until we arrived
at The Wildwoods, which was by far the largest and most hype of the
boardwalk towns we went to. The boardwalk itself is more than 2 miles
long and the white sand beaches were some of the most beautiful I’ve
ever seen north of Florida. This area is famous for being one of the
liveliest stretches of boardwalk on the East coast, and arriving here
is a pure sensory overload in itself. Here, visitors can pop in and
out of more retail shops and eateries than the Mall of America has!
After wandering into a few of the gift shops, we played some
carnival-style games and went to a couple arcades, played indoor 3-D
mini golf, tasted some of the traditional snacks to that area, such as
Chipstix, which are a string of potato chips on a stick, and
over-sized slices of cheese pizza. Our night was ended with a ride on
the largest Ferris wheel on the east coast, which offered breathtaking
views of both the illuminated boardwalk and the moonlit ocean. The
next morning we came right back to the boardwalk to see what he didn’t
have time for the night before. We rode the only wooden roller coaster
on a boardwalk anywhere in the US to my knowledge and checked out the
beach for awhile. By the time we eventually left The Wildwoods, the
phrase “Watch the tram car please” was installed in my brain since
it’s inevitable to avoid it on the boardwalk, because the tram cars,
riding right in the middle of thousands of pedestrians, blare that on their loudspeakers every 5 seconds as they come inches from running helpless victims over. After enjoying our cherished time at this
wonderful location, we had one place left to go…further south down the road until we couldn’t go south any longer.

As you could guess, our final stop on our journey was the wonderful
historic town of Cape May, which is a perfect example of how some
things simply just get better with age. The entire town is a National
Historic District, and showcases almost 600 preserved Victorian
buildings, which line nearly every street, with rocking chairs ready
for tired tourists to relax on their front porches. We marveled at the
beauty of the southernmost beach in the state and visited the historic
Cape May lighthouse, which was built in 1858. We then walked around
the Washington Street Mall, which is an outdoor shopping street which
is closed to automobiles. We got one of the best lunches of my entire
life at Maggy D’s in this district, which composed of a toasted peanut
butter, banana, and marshmellow sandwich with chips and a vanilla
flavored Dr. Pepper. After devouring our delicious delicacies , we
walked around to check out the many Victorian style B&B’s and decided
we would definitely stay at one next time we came down here. Before
saying farewell for good, we walked back to the shore to get one last
glimpse of the ocean, and then got back in the car to drive back
through the infamous ugly parts of New Jersey to arrive back home.



I’ve been all over the country and have seen over 40 states so far in
just 23 short years, but this trip was by far one of the best I had
ever been on even though it had been one of the closest I have ever
taken from home. Going to the south Jersey shore proved to me that you
don’t need to travel thousands of miles to escape the norm, and that
true gems can be found right in your own backyard, just waiting there
for you to eventually discover them. Overall, New Jersey is still one
of my least favorite states, but the area of New Jersey I saw on this
journey is one of my favorite parts of the country…I’m not sure if
that makes any sense to anyone else except myself. Not only did this
trip open my eyes and challenge me to reconsider my previous distaste
and unappealing notions of New Jersey, but it made me appreciate the
east coast a great deal more in general. After seeing the West coast
for the first time last year and falling in love with it, it took a
trip like this to make me truly appreciate my ocean again. I will
gladly fist pump my way up and down these boardwalks again soon, and
every single night I’m sitting at home with nothing to do, I secretly
wish I was still on the Jersey shore in the midst of all the hype.
Although I have seen some beautiful beaches, great people watching
hot-spots, and historic towns, I have still yet to see one thing
anywhere in the “garden” state….a garden.

A Winter Escape to the Southeast

Winter happens to be one of my favorite seasons…for about two weeks…and then I’m ready to shovel away the snow and frigid weather in order to welcome in springtime with open arms. However, in New England, winter seems to virtually last half of the year, so this winter, I devised a genius plan of migrating down the entire east coast until I literally ran out of road to travel on. Before the approaching snowstorm attempted to trap me into wretched winter wonderland, I quickly hopped in the car along with my mother and my girlfriend and drove all night, and each passing sign that said “South” on it, made me smile more and more.


By sunrise we had already made it into Virginia and a little before noon we crossed the North Carolina border. North Carolina happens to be one of my favorite states, but I spent quite a significant amount of time here last summer, and I know as a fact I will again in the not so distant future, so I was not too upset that we pretty much just drove straight through. We did make a quick pit stop in Enfield, NC to check out the Aunt Ruby’s peanuts store, where we sampled and bought various tasty treats. We then got back on the highway and drove past “Pedro” billboards for the next 150 miles until that huge sombrero peeped over the horizon and the infamous tacky tourist trap was in our sights. South of the Border is a roadside attraction  that is appropriately named since it lies just south of the North Carolina state border as soon as you come into South Carolina, and anyone who has ever taken a family trip down to Disney World has probably stopped at this place along the way. I have no explanation of why it exists or why this makeshift Mexican town is thousands of miles from its natural habitat, and usually I detest gaudy things on this planet, but there’s something about the tacky charm here that makes each passerby smile, perhaps because unlike the real Mexico, everyone here speaks English and the water is safe to drink. There are restaurants, amusement parks, attractions, and motels here, in case a traveler stopping through is in search of comida, a fiesta, or a siesta, but since we craved to go even further south, we briefly just stopped in one of the gift shops, tried on a plethora of goofy hats for silly picture opportunities, and bought some very retro and vibrant souvenir t-shirts.

A few hours later we arrived in one of my favorite little cities: Charleston, South Carolina. Charleston has adopted the nickname “The Holy City” because of it’s surplus of churches on its low-rise cityscape, especially the various steeples which decorate the skyline of the city. We first drove down to the southern point of the town where one of my favorite parks are, White Point Gardens, and marveled at the beautiful trees as well as the views of the water and Fort Sumter in the distance. After walking around there for about 30 minutes, we hopped back in the car and drove past “Rainbow Row” which is a street that showcases a series of colorful and historic houses. All of the houses on this street are various pastel colors, and this section happens to be one of the most photographed areas of the city. We then went into the heart of downtown and checked out Market Hall, which is an indoor marketplace full of people selling various items in which they have created, from jewelry to other various household items, and there are many stores and restaurants in the immediate area too, which give it an appropriate label in my mind of “the Quincy Market of the South”. After tasting some free samples in a couple of the candy stores nearby, we walked over to King Street which is the shopping and dining district of the town. We went to one of the many restaurants there for dinner and window-shopped as the sun began to set and took a final stroll marveling at the beautiful architecture before retiring for the night.


The next morning we briefly stopped in Beaufort, South Carolina along the way, which is a beautiful little town, and found a neat country store on the way called the Carolina Cherry Company, where we sampled various flavors of cider, jams, and jellies. I had a spoken word show in Orlando later that night, so we had a lot of ground to cover in the meantime before arriving to Florida. We crossed the state line and took some pictures next to the state welcome sign, and then headed the 3 hours south to Orlando. Austin Coffee in Orlando is pretty much my home away from home in terms of my poetry shows, since I hardly ever do any shows in Connecticut because of the lack of venues or poetry open mics. This was my 3rd time performing at this same café in Orlando since 2007 and I greatly enjoy coming down there as often as possible to share my work with the little creative community down there, and over the years I have made quite a fan base with a family of poets in that area. After performing an over 30 minute set of both old poems from my first CD as well as new stuff I performed for the first time off my upcoming CD “Sea Change”, we chatted with the open mic host and other poets there for awhile and then headed into downtown Orlando at Universal Studio’s Citywalk, where we ate a late dinner at the Hard Rock Café. Florida is a state that I have been coming to annually since I was 5 years old, because my family owned a time share at Disney World, and this was the first time in over a 15 trips to Orlando that I would not be stopping to see Mickey Mouse and his gang. It was both weird and refreshing in a way, because not stopping at the overplayed tourist traps in the area would give me more time to explore the other parts of Florida I have never seen, which is why we got back in the car early the next morning and headed down the east coast of the state towards Miami.



On the way down to Miami we got off of the main highway and went down scenic route A1A along the coast and passed though some beautiful beach towns such as Jupiter, West Palm Beach (which reminded me of the Beverly Hills of the Atlantic), and Boca Raton.  In the late afternoon, after driving by hundreds of beautiful mansions along the coast for over an hour, we finally arrived into Miami and were overwhelmed at how huge its skyline is. We went straight to South Beach and walked along the beautiful beach there while enjoying the sunset, checking out the unique and colorful lifeguard stands, and taking in all of the amazing colors of the water, sand, and sky around us which would never been seen at any beach back home. We then walked around the famous Collins Ave and Ocean Drive to marvel at the beautiful Art Deco architecture and to enjoy one of my favorite free pastimes: people watching. Every single one of the dozens of bars, clubs, and restaurants we passed on the crowded street were full of interesting and vibrant characters, and it was easily one of the most hype places for nightlife I had ever seen. We grabbed a quick bite to eat at the famous News Café and sat outside to enjoy some more entertaining people watching as well as the beautiful scenery and weather.



Early the next morning we got back in the car and drove 3 hours south to Key West until we literally couldn’t drive any longer due to the road coming to an end at the southernmost point in the continental US. On the way to Key West, we drove on approximately 160 miles of perhaps some of the most beautiful stretches of road on this planet, with unparallel views of the gorgeous ocean on both sides of one of the longest bridges in the world. When we finally arrived to our destination, we first took our pictures next to the monument marking the southernmost point in the continental United States, and then we relaxed for a bit at the southernmost beach in the continental U.S., which was right next door.  We then walked over to the popular Duval Street and briefly checked out Ernest Hemingway’s house on the way. During that walk we also noticed that there are many free roaming chickens that reside on the island, which was both neat and a nuisance at the same time. Duval Street is full of restaurants, gift shops, and bars, and we spent a great deal of time taking in all of the ambiance of the area before it began to spontaneously downpour outside, so to escape the treacherous rain, we decided to eat dinner at Jimmy Buffet’s restaurant, Margaritaville, where I had a delicious crab cake sandwich. By the time we had finished eating, the streets were empty even though the rain had recently stopped, so we took one last solitarily stroll up and down the street before getting back on route 1 to drive back to Miami for the night.


The following day we briefly visited downtown Miami and the Little Havana district, and walked along the Biscayne Bay area before making our way all the way back up to northern Florida. In the early evening, we took a moment to walk around St. Augustine, which is the “oldest city in the USA” and is located approximately halfway between Orlando and Savannah, Georgia. We were only here for about 30 minutes, but managed to briefly see many things, including the Castillo de San Marcos, Flagler College, and we took a nice walk down the narrow cobble stoned Aviles Street, which is the quaint shopping district of the city. We then got back in the car and drove an hour north to Jacksonville, where we grabbed a bite to eat at one of the several restaurants at Jacksonville Landing, which is a shopping and dining complex which can be compared to Manhattan’s South Street Seaport. We then crossed the state line into Georgia before finding a hotel for the night.



A little after sunrise we entered Savannah, Georgia on the Highway 17 bridge, which dropped us off right in the historic area of Savannah, which is the largest National Historic Landmark District in the entire United States. We headed straight to the visitor center, which is inside of the old railroad station, and houses a museum as well. Savannah is one of the most beautiful and well preserved cities I had ever seen and I was excited to have the opportunity to come back here. Savannah’s architecture and history are internationally known, as well as its reputation for Southern hospitality and charm. Savannah seems to have a city park or square at the end of literally every street block, and huge live oak trees draped with Spanish moss grace the entire downtown and are a nice accent to the historic homes and buildings. We strolled and relaxed in a few of these beautiful city parks, including Chippewa Square (where some of the famous scenes from “Forrest Gump” were filmed), before walking over to River Street, which runs right along the Savannah River and is paved with cobblestones. We got lunch at one of the many restaurants there, and then checked out some of the shops before making our way back to the car to dreadfully head back up the Northeast.



When we arrived back in New England the next day, we were not surprised at all to be welcomed back with a huge snowstorm. Less than 24 hours ago, we were peacefully relaxing in scenic Spanish moss saturated squares in 70 degree weather, and now we were planted right back into a wicked winter wonderland. The snow was undoubtedly beautiful since it was still fresh and covering all of the trees, but seeing this sight made me realize why I wanted to escape to the Southeast so much during the winter in the first place. As I said earlier, winter is one of my favorite seasons…for about 2 weeks, to go skiing a couple times, build a snowman or two, and to bundle up with some hot cocoa and blankets, but about 14 days of that is more than enough for me, and then I wish I could be right back on a park bench in Savannah, or relaxing on a beach in Miami, or walking cobblestone streets in St. Augustine. It baffles me that so many Americans settle for living permanently in places like New England, where they need to shovel their driveways half of the year, and freeze their asses off during their morning commutes, and be outside for not even 5 minutes before icicles begin to form on their faces. Although I am a fellow New Englander and suffer with the rest of these intelligent morons, I at least had the brains to escape this frozen Hell for a week and visit paradise…a cherished trip that I wish I was still on as I sit here in the cold writing about it.

A Weekend in Washington DC

Many of you know that one of my biggest goals in which I hope to achieve within the next two years is to visit all 50 states and get my picture next to each state sign. I currently have been to over 40, but a certain place seemed to have slipped my mind entirely while in the midst of achieving this goal. Sure, we have 50 states in this country with 50 capitals, BUT what about the capital of the nation itself? It is a place in this country, and it is separate from the 50 states, so it SHOULD count as one of the places I need to see and it SHOULD be treated as just as much of a notch on the road to 50 states as the actual states themselves are, correct? I think so, which is why I decided to take a weekend getaway to the District of Colombia with my good friend Steve.

Washington DC is a city about the size of a football field (exaggerating just a little bit of course), but it manages to rival such heavyweights as New York City, Chicago, Philadelphia, and Boston. In fact, certain sections of DC reminded me of all 4 of those cities to an extent. I have driven “by” DC probably 100 times in my life, since it is only 6 hours from my home, but I have only actually been to DC once, when I was 11 years old, so I was truly excited to have the opportunity to spend 3 days here, since it was pretty much my first time in the city when I could actually appreciate it and see everything for what it is. DC has always sparked interest in me, since it is run as a virtual colony of Congress, and the residents of the city have merely a single representative, who isn’t allowed to vote. The citizens themselves couldn’t even vote in presidential elections until 1961, when the 23rd Amendment was passed. Ok…enough history….let’s move on to the fun times that were had in this amazing city, shall we?

We arrived into DC on Friday night and immediately headed to the Adams Morgan section of town, which is the place to go for nightlife and the all-too-fun bar crawl. This particular section is very diverse culturally, and this is clearly evident in the many quirky shops and funky, offbeat clubs and bars that line the streets. This area is particularly popular with younger, more hip crowds, and is full of ethnic restaurants, including a fantastic Ethiopian joint named Meskerem Restaurant, where we ate chicken and lamb for dinner. Ethiopian food has always been a favorite of mine, because of the tradition and style of how everyone at the table shares the same food together from the same plate, which is something that I greatly enjoy. We then made our way to a couple bars and jazz clubs for quick drinks and to watch some musicians perform, and then headed over to a very famous bar and blues club named Madam’s Organ, which is 4 stories high and is considered a landmark in the city. Upon entering, the bouncer made me take my baseball cap off (which is something I actually appreciate about a club, enforcing somewhat of a dress code), and once I walked in, I realized why this place is so famous. The club actually has a very strong Memphis type feel to it, and at times I had to remind myself I was in the Mid Atlantic and not on Beale Street. We sipped down a few bottles of Yuengling while listening to a rockabilly band play on stage, and equally exclaimed our newly discovered love of this city to each other even though the best had yet to be seen. The night was ended by walking around the central Mall, and sitting on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial while gazing out at the Washington Monument and the Capital Building, which was truly a beautiful sight and a beautiful way to end a beautiful first night in this beautiful city.

The next day we woke up early and headed back to the monuments for picture taking opportunities while the sun was out. We wanted to go up to the top of the Washington Monument, but tickets were already sold out for the day, so we walked over the Lincoln Memorial again, then to the Capital Building and Jefferson Memorial. On our way walking over to the White House, the most fascinating thing happened. Suddenly dozens of cop cars blocked all of the side roads so no traffic could pass on Pennsylvania Avenue. Then all of a sudden, as a helicopter was circling overhead, a parade of about 50 black cars surrounded by more police cars came speeding down the road, and out of one of the large black cars in the middle of the pack, President Barack Obama was smiling and waving to the crowd. This was truly an unexpected experience, but I guess I should have figured that this probably happens often here, every time he is leaving or entering the White House. Nonetheless, it was still very cool to be able to see our nation’s president while in town. We then made our way over to the Chinatown district, and got some amazing Chinese food at a place called Chinatown Express, which is supposed to be the best Chinese food in the city. There is a big glass window outside the front of this tiny restaurant and passerby’s can watch the “noodle guy” prepare the noodles as they continue walking on the sidewalk. After finishing our very enjoyable meals there, we walked on over to the Smithsonian to go to the Air and Space Museum. One of the great things about DC is that admission to pretty much most major attractions are free. We walked around the museum for about an hour while learning about the history of aviation and breakthroughs with space discovery.

The next section of town we decided to explore was arguably the most beautiful part of the entire city. Georgetown is a very trendy, fashionable area, yet it is Washington’s oldest neighborhood, and walking the residential streets of this area draws parallels to Boston’s Beacon Hill area or parts of Philadelphia as well. The tree-lined streets and handsome brick houses brought a smile to face while scuffling my feet through the freshly fallen yellow leaves on the cobblestone sidewalks. We took a leisurely stroll on the Chesapeake and Ohio Canal, or C and O canal for short, and window-shopped at some of the retail stores on the congested M street before heading out in search for dinner.  We grabbed a bite to eat at the famous Ben’s Chili Bowl on U Street, where I had the most delicious hot dog of my life, which of course was topped with their famous chili. Besides the chili dog, I also had a half smoke, even though I had no idea what a half smoke was until I ordered it. Apparently Obama asked the same exact question when he came here to eat once he was elected, so I am in good company at least. While we were eating, a man who worked at the restaurant showed us some brief TV news highlights of Ben’s throughout the years, and gave a very impressive and informative speech both about the history of Ben’s in the past 50 years, as well as the area of the city throughout that time. U Street used to be a predominantly black neighborhood, and the man told the story of how Ben’s Chili Bowl brought people of all backgrounds and races together to celebrate the joy of eating out as a family, and to enjoy great food, even through the toughest times of oppression and turmoil. We finished what might have been one of the best meals of my life, thanked the man for his very descriptive speech, and headed out to Dupont Circle in search for a bar to get some brews for dessert. This section of town is widely known as the gay neighborhood of the city, yet it is equally popular with heterosexuals simply on the prowl for some good nightlife, restaurants, shops, clubs, bars, and most importantly, people watching. We ended up at a very neat bar named The Brickskeller, which claims to have the widest selection of beers in the world. In fact, their menu does have over 1000 beers on it from all around the world, broken down by country of origin, which I found extremely impressive. I wish this place was closer to my house so I could come here every night to sample a taste from every country, yet since we were only there for the night, I decided to stay true to my nationality and roots and tried Russian Baltika beer for the first time in my life, which was, for lack of a better word, delicious.

Early on Sunday morning, we left our hotel in Arlington, Virginia and visited the Iwo Jima memorial right nearby. We then took a 10 minute drive to Alexandria, Virginia, where the history stretches back to 1699, which was way before DC even existed as our capital. We walked around Old Town Alexandria on the cobbled streets along the waterfront, which possesses countless vintage 18th century buildings, including churches, taverns, houses, and stores. We got ice cream at Pop’s and then got back in the car to head to DC for a final time. We ended up at Busboys and Poets for lunch, which is a restaurant, bookstore, fair trade market and gathering place where people come to converse and chat about issues of social justice and peace. This place allows a great number of artistic and literary communities to interact with one another over some food and drink in a relaxing atmosphere. After sipping down some tasty chi and devouring a delicious turkey sandwich, we said farewell to our nation’s capital and promised to come back soon.

Before coming back home for good, we decided to make a pit stop in Annapolis, Maryland. This was honestly a town that I never knew much about other than the Navy Academy being there, but I’ve heard only good things about it so I decided now was the time to check it out while I was in the area. Once arriving into town my jaw almost dropped in amazement for how beautiful and genuinely historic the town looked. The entire downtown area steps you back in time 300 years and truly makes you feel like you are a colonial parading the streets rather than a modern day visitor. We went to one of the neatest Starbucks I’ve ever seen, which was in the basement of a historical hotel, and once inside, we felt like we were in a cave rather than a coffee shop. We then walked along the harbor, the main shopping and dining streets, and some of the residential side streets to take in all of the history and beauty that surrounded us. We grabbed some grub for dinner at the 18th century landmark Middleton Tavern before sadly heading back home later at night.

Washington DC is an area that gets a lot of bad rep for some unfair reason, sure it has it’s bad parts, just as any city does, but it also have tons of beautiful and fun areas to check out. I have never been to a place that is able to successfully cram so much history, business, politics, nightlife, leisure, natural beauty, educational learning, and attractions in such a tiny perimeter. This area here felt like home to me, areas like this are the reason why I love New England and the northeast so much, because of these old historic places that make you feel like you’re back in time 300 years just by taking a simple stroll on some side streets. Granted, Washington DC, Maryland, and Virginia are not New England, and perhaps not even truly the northeast, but true beautiful places like these only exist in these parts of the country, which is something I am very grateful for. It took me 11 long years to return to the DC area after my first visit as a kid, but I can assure everyone, and especially myself, that I will be returning here again in the very, very near future, because this is one of my new most favorite places in the entire country.

A Two Week Tour of the Midwest and Great Lakes

I just did an almost identical trip to the Midwest a little over one month ago, however, my travel bug cannot be tamed, ergo; I was back on the road to one of my favorite parts of the country again this fall. Last time I was in the Midwest in August, I only got to spend about a week there, which is not a long enough amount of time for me, so I decided to go back to some old places that I love, as well as for my eyes to see some new places for the first time. This trip, I decided to stay on the road for a total of 2 weeks, and I am glad I got to travel the Midwest in a slower, more leisurely pace on my own terms.

My good friend Steve (not my cousin Steve from the last Midwest trip) joined me for the first handful of days of this trip. I picked him up in Hartford, Connecticut on Wednesday afternoon and then by early evening we entered Philadelphia, which is one of my new favorite cities. We briefly stopped at the Darkhorse bar (how fitting, I know), and then headed to Kennet Square, Pennsylvania for dinner, which was just over a half hour away. I wanted to check out a place I saw on the Travel Channel there called the Half Moon Restaurant, which is famous for serving many types of wild game meat. Since I am a very adventurous eater, I decided to sample some ostrich, pheasant, and wild boar there, which were all delicious, and then washed it down with some Yuengling, one of my favorite beers which are not sold in my home state. After dinner, we headed to the University of Delaware in Newark, DE which was only about 20 minutes away, and walked around the campus at night to check out the college scene before getting back in the car to head to Baltimore. One of my good friends Poet of Pain lives in Baltimore, and plans were to meet up with him briefly to say hello while we were in the area, but he had work so we drove around downtown Baltimore, checking out some good and not so good sections of the city. By now, it was after midnight, and we dabbled with the idea of walking around Washington DC at night but we decided to save DC for another time, and drove an hour west to Harpers Ferry, West Virginia, which is located right on the Maryland and Virginia state borders. We arrived there around 2 AM and almost hit four deer crossing the road at one point, but finally fell asleep in my car in a parking lot for a few hours while a very loud train would pass by every 45 minutes and the cold weather certainly did not help. We awoke at sunrise very cranky and sore from napping in the car, but we went to a diner to rejuvenate and then walked around the town of Harpers Ferry and the National Park there. The Appalachian Trail goes right through the town, so we took a moment to take a short walk on that, even though I eventually would like to hike the entire trail from Maine to Georgia later in my life, and marveled at the charm of the quaint, beautiful little town before heading off for our long drive through the West Virginia mountains. We both took turns napping while the other drove, and while we were awake, we would marvel at the beautiful natural scenery surrounding us. West Virginia is a state that doesn’t get much attention or discussion, but this was my 3rd time here this year for a reason, the beauty of this state awes me every time I pass its state line. By noon we arrived to the capital Charleston, got a quick bite to eat and took a minute to check out the city, and then got back in the car en route to Kentucky, which was our destination for the evening.

In the late afternoon we took a minute to get off the highway to check out Lexington, Kentucky, where the University of Kentucky is. The city itself was fairly nice, but I wasn’t too impressed with the campus, so we got back in the car and drove an hour to Louisville, one of my favorite cities in the country. I had a show right across the river in Jeffersonville, Indiana that night, which went well, then after the show, Steve and I went back to Louisville for dinner and drinks in an area called 4th Steet Live, which is an amazing part of town closed off to traffic and has amazing night life, full of bars, clubs, restaurants, and venues. This area is something you would expect to see in Las Vegas or NYC, certainly not Kentucky. We ended our night one street over at my favorite hole in the wall bar in the state, 3rd street dive, and played a few games of darts before going to my friend Ian’s house 10 minutes away in New Albany, Indiana for the night. His hospitality has always been appreciated during my many travels to Indiana, and it was good to be able to see him again. The next day we were off to Bloomington, Indiana, which many of you know is one of my most favorite towns in the entire country, and I always get extremely excited when I get to come there, because I know good times are always to be had. When we arrived into town, we walked around the Indiana University campus, which is truly a beautiful place, and I had a show at Rachael’s café right outside campus. After the show, a group of my friends from Bloomington joined us for dinner and drinks at a restaurant nearby, and then we walked over to my favorite bar in the country, which is called the Video Bar and Saloon by outsiders, but is simply known as “The Vid” to locals and myself. This bar is so great that there is not even a sign for it outside, they do not promote the place at all nor advertise it, but the locals know how amazing it is so it is packed every night. It is on the 2nd floor of a building, above another bar, so we walked up the stairs and showed the bouncer our ID, and I was surprised that he remembered me from being there two months ago. The reason why I love this bar so much is because everything is cheap and it is a very laid back fun place full of friendly college students and young adults. You can get a beer on draft for $1.50, play darts for free, and billiards for only 50 cents a game. So it’s safe to say that a very fun night can be had at “The Vid” for fewer than 10 bucks. We spent several cherished hours there and then retired for the night at my friend Hiromi’s dorm, whose hospitality is also always appreciated every time I’m in Indiana. The next morning we got brunch at the Runcible Spoon before saying goodbye to Hiromi, and then headed an hour up north to Indianapolis for the weekend.

I have been to Indianapolis once before, but only briefly for a few hours, so I was happy to be able to explore the city some more this time to be able to truly appreciate it. Our first night in Indy, we met up with my friend Lindsay and we all went out for dinner and to a comedy club called Crackers in the broadripple section of town, which I enjoyed very much. The comedy club was a lot of fun and we saw comedian Robert Hawkins perform, who was voted as one of the top 25 comedians in the country in a 2001 poll. Needless to say, he was hysterical, and I was glad we spontaneously decided to go there. We then went to a hookah bar, which was a first for me, and it was definitely a fun, relaxing experience, but I don’t quite understand all the hype about it, because quite frankly, if I’m going to smoke something, I want it to be something that gets me high, not something that tastes like watermelons. Unfortunately on the way back to the hotel that night, we were in a car accident, but luckily it wasn’t too serious and nobody was hurt. The next day we woke up and met up with Lindsay again (who is a Colts fan) and headed over to Lucas Oil Stadium to watch the Indianapolis Colts play my favorite team, the Seattle Seahawks. We had amazing seats on the street level and I was amazed by how beautiful the Colt’s new stadium is. Of course the Seahawks lost 34-17, because the Colts are too good, but it was still fun to go to. Later that night we went to an area downtown called Mass Ave which has some cool bars, restaurants, and shops. We ate dinner at Old Point Tavern, then went to a really cool little Jazz Club called Chatterbox and watched an amazing saxophonist by the name of Jared Thompson perform. After leaving there, a car-related misfortunate happened for the 2nd night in a row; we ran over a really big pot hole on the way back to the hotel and the front axle on my car snapped, so we had to call a tow truck to take my car to a mechanic. At this point I was pretty worried and upset, because it was late at night, I didn’t know the city well enough to know where mechanics were, and I was supposed to leave early the next day for Michigan. However, the series of events which happened after proved why I love Indiana and the people of the Midwest so much. The tow truck guy was extremely helpful and dropped us back off at our hotel for free, and then the next day, my friend Steve went to the airport to go back home to CT as planned, but the La Quinta hotel in Indy we were staying at let me stay in my room for an extra few hours for free because of my situation, and then a mechanic from the shop came and picked me up at the hotel for free, which was a 15 minute drive each way. My car was the first one fixed that day since they knew I was from out of state and had to leave that day. The entire experience went smoothly and I was truly impressed with how kind and helpful people out there are to complete strangers, because I feel in the back of my mind that people would not be as kind in that same situation back home in the northeast. After thanking them for all their help, I left the shop with my fixed car and drove up to Michigan, where I would be spending the next few days.

Michigan is one of those states that I never thought I would be spending a lot of time in a few years back, but turns out, this is now my 3rd time there this year, and I know as a fact I will be back again soon. Do I love the state of Michigan? Not really…I even sometimes like to joke around and call it the New Jersey of the Midwest, but I do like certain parts of the state, and wanted to take the time to explore the entire state to see some of the nicer parts of it. After spending the night in Grand Rapids (a not so amazing city), I picked up my friend Jamie from the Grand Rapids area and started driving up north to see some of the more quaint little towns along the coast of Lake Michigan. We briefly stopped by at beaches in Muskegon and Grand Haven, which I had been to this past July. When I was there over the summer, they were very lively and fun, happening places, but now in the cold Autumn weather, the beaches and towns were almost completely deserted, with the exception of a couple older fishermen and joggers. It seemed like I was at a completely different beach than before, but I kind of liked the serenity in a way, and sat out on the dock near the lighthouse while thinking about where I wanted to travel next from here. I decided to drive up the entire coast of Lake Michigan up to Traverse City, which was a small, charming town I was quite impressed with, and then made my way to Petoskey for the night. Pretty much every single town I went to in Michigan I was really impressed with, and all had a small town charm to them which is not something you see much more of nowadays, with all sorts of modernized commercial buildings and chain stores and restaurants popping up everywhere. However, none of this existed in northern Michigan; there were no Best Buys or Wal-Marts, no Barnes and Nobles or Applebee’s. There were instead plenty of independently run businesses, which was a breath of fresh air. This might be the very reason why the economy is exceptionally bad in Michigan, but it was really nice to see stores such as Billy’s Shoes and opposed to Payless, and The Fresh Scoop instead of Dairy Queen. Out here, there was a store just for shoes, just for televisions, just for vacuums, and not kidding…just for bingo supplies. We stopped briefly in other small towns along the way, such as Harbor Springs, and they were all mirror’s reflections of the towns before them; all very small, all very independent and close knit, and all very quaint, cute, and picturesque.

Once arriving in Mackinaw City, the northern most town in the southern peninsula of the state, I noticed the charm to start disappearing and instead was replaced by the traditional tacky souvenir shops that tourists gobble up, just as you would see at Niagara Falls or Mt. Rushmore or Gatlinburg, Tennessee. This didn’t bother me too much though, because the scenery was quite amazing, having Lake Michigan to my left and Lake Huron to my right, with the impressive Mackinac Bridge right in front of me, which I could confidently call the Golden Gate Bridge of the Midwest. This bridge is the only connection by road from the lower and upper peninsulas of the state, and I gladly paid the 3 dollar toll to cross it, because I was eager to see the upper part of Michigan which locals call the “UP”. Once I crossed the bridge, I noticed almost immediately that this seemed like a different state altogether. This was not the Michigan I was just in several moments ago; this was very rugged, very desolate, and very empty. I literally drove for two hours along a very beautiful coastline without seeing another human being or vehicle. The main reason why I wanted to come this far up north was to go to Pictured Rocks National Lakeshore, which is a beautiful area along the coast of Lake Superior that I have seen many impressive pictures of and was eager to see with my own eyes. When we finally did arrive there, it was definitely worth the drive, for this is one of the most beautiful areas I have ever been to. The beaches, the rugged coastline, the forest, and the cliffs are all breathtaking, and this is truly a hidden gem that more people need to visit in their lifetime. After spending a couple hours marveling at the true beauty of this area, we retired for the night in the nearby town of Marquette, and woke up early the next day excited to head down to Wisconsin.

Wisconsin is a state that is mainly known for two things: Cheese and Beer, so I planned on enjoying both of these while spending a couple days in this state. As soon as we crossed the border we went to this really sketchy shack on the side of the road which had the name “Our Place” written on the front. I assumed this was a sort of roadside attraction, but when we opened the front door and entered, I truly felt like I was going to die in this place. An old man was sitting in a room as we walked in that looked like it was half bar and half living room, and he was just as surprised to see us as we were to see him. His confused face quickly turned into a smile and he opened up a door in the back that led into a whole maze of other rooms, full of tacky little knickknacks and very old, awful smelling items. We spent a good half hour in there exploring the dozen or so rooms, and one entire room was dedicated to just salt and pepper shakers. After checking out the world’s largest collection of salt and pepper shakers, we decided to quickly escape this awkward place while we still had the chance, and sprinted out of the shack into my car and sped away without looking back. We then made our way to Green Bay, which was a little town that I had high hopes for, since I figured it must be nice if an NFL franchise could prosper there. However, I was thoroughly disappointed with the town and quite frankly, it was one of the ugliest, most depressing places I had ever been to. All you can see from the highway is several smokestacks, and once you get into town, there is nothing much at all there to see or do. There is nothing around town that even hints that the Packers exist or play there, except for Lambeau Field about 5 minutes from downtown. I really feel like this town has a lot of potential, but there were no signs of improvement anytime soon. Maybe one day I will be mayor and turn things around, but with confidence I could say that I would rather hang out in Bridgeport, Connecticut or Harlem than Green Bay again.

Later that evening we arrived in Madison, the state’s capital, and that happened to be a much better experience, and quite frankly, one of the nicer little cities I had ever been to. I was truly impressed with how much there was to do there, and I wish I could have stayed longer. The entire area near the University of Wisconsin campus is full of great restaurants, stores, bars, and the city itself is nestled right between two very scenic lakes. The next day for lunch we headed down to a small town in southern Wisconsin named Monroe, which has a pretty famous “cheese store and tavern” there named Baumgartner’s that I had to check out in order to satisfy my beer and cheese cravings (even though I’m lactose intolerant). At this place, I got to enjoy the very two things Wisconsin is famous for: Cheese and Beer, at the same time. I don’t remember the name of the beers I had there, all I know is that they were locally brewed and very delicious. I sampled 3 different cheese sandwiches: Swiss, Cheddar, and Limburger, all complete with wheat bread and onions. All were very yummy, but the Limburger was extremely smelly, had a weird texture, and was very unsettling in my stomach. After enjoying my time there, I learned one thing about Wisconsin: even though cheese and beer are their specialties, you should enjoy just one at a time, because they do not mix well together at all.  We ended the day by driving over to Milwaukee to watch the sunset on the other side of Lake Michigan, and we wandered around the river walk area at night, which is a nice area full of upscale stores and restaurants. Looking back on Wisconsin, I must say that I was very, very impressed with this state overall, it definitely exceeded my expectations (with the exception of Green Bay), and I can honestly say that this is one of my new most favorite states, that I can’t wait to explore more of next year.

Around 9 PM we arrived an hour south in Chicago, Illinois, which if you recall from my last blog about the Midwest, I had a very “sloppy” and embarrassing day here in August, so the city still leaves a bad taste in my mouth, but I hoped to find some good tastes for my mouth here this time at the famous Gino’s East Pizza. We shared a deep dish tomato pie which was very delicious and then I traditionally carved my name into the wall just like everyone else does there, before leaving and attempting to find a hotel for the night. We decided to look for one outside of Chicago because it would be cheaper, so we decided to venture back to Indiana about 20 minutes away and stopped in Hammond, which is right over the border. We found a hotel named the Jefferson Hotel, and this was quite possibly the worst place I had ever slept at in my life. First off, this place charges by the hour, so you can get an idea of what kind of place this is right off the bat, and the entire place had a 1920’s feel to it, but not in a good way, more so of the stock market crash kind of way. I decided to rent the room for 12 hours so I can catch up on some lost sleep, but if I knew the condition of the rooms beforehand, I wouldn’t had stayed for more than 12 minutes. What surprised me the most was when I opened the door to my room, there was no bathroom in it; the entire floor shared one bathroom, similar to a college dorm style. The bedroom pretty much just had a bed, a tiny television, a closet, and a sink in the corner. This was clearly a place where people came to do just one thing, and it definitely wasn’t to sleep. However, I was too tired to really care too much at that point, after a long day on the road, and many miles still to go on the journey ahead, so I shut my eyes and dreamed of a better place. The next morning we briefly checked out Indiana Dunes National Lakeshore (yes, Indiana does have a coastline to those of you who suck at geography), and enjoyed being able to relax on a beach and see the Chicago skyline in the distance.

After leaving there, we decided to see some more of Michigan again since we were in the area. We drove along the entire southern part of the state until we decided to make a pit stop in the cute little town of Chelsea, which is near Ann Arbor. From there, we headed about 15 minutes north to the tiny little town of Hell, which I had heard of before on the Travel Channel, obviously because of its name. The entire town consisted of only 3 little gift shops and a restaurant, and was clearly a minuscule and diminutive tourist trap nestled in the woods. We grabbed a bite to eat at the restaurant in “town” and then headed to Detroit for the night. Detroit was a city that I had never wished to visit, because of my previous stereotypes of it, but I decided to give it a chance since I was in the area. We walked around a sketchy section called “greektown” at night, which I guess was the cities attempt at a hip, nightlife area, but it proved to be more of a place for homeless men to hassle passerby’s than a fun hangout spot. I then decided to find a hotel for a night and give Detroit a second chance tomorrow while the sun was out and it was safer. We woke up the next morning and first visited the suburb of Dearborn, which is the town with the highest population of Middle-Easterners in the entire country. Driving around town makes you feel like you’re in Lebanon instead of Michigan, and we ate lunch at a very amazing restaurant called Al Ameers, which was featured on Anthony Bourdain’s No Reservations, one of my favorite shows on the Travel Channel. The food there was some of the best I had had in my entire life, which consisted of some sort of a Middle-Eastern chicken wrap, and a fruit smoothie filled with chunks of fruit still inside it. I really wish this place was closer to my house, because I would seriously eat there every single day. I then went back to Detroit, hoping it would look nicer during the day, and it proved to look even worse during the day because you could see more that the dark was hiding last night. We went to Belle Isle Park which overlooks Canada on the other side of the river, and I was really sad that I didn’t bring my passport so I could explore Ontario instead of the Hellhole I was in now. Briefly seeing Detroit made me realize that stereotypes exist for a reason, and that Michigan, especially the Detroit area, is hurting badly from the poor economy. It is quite a sad area indeed, and hopefully it can be improved somewhat in the near future.

We then drove on for the rest of the day before retiring in Pennsylvania for the night. The next day we checked out State College, PA, where Penn State University is, and it was a college town I was very impressed with. We got lunch at a diner in town and then strolled along the streets checking out all the stores and restaurants near the college, before heading back in the car and driving through all of Pennsylvania before making it to New York City at night. We went through the Lincoln Tunnel in New Jersey which shot us right into the hustle and bustle of mid-town Manhattan. We walked around Washington Square Park and Greenwich Village before getting dinner and delicious cannolis for dessert in Little Italy. We then drove around Times Square to marvel at all of the lights before heading back to Connecticut to conclude my two week trip of the Midwest. I then showed her around Connecticut and Boston for a few days before bringing her to Logan Airport so she could get back home, and thanked her for accompanying me on my trip since everyone else was too busy to join me with their real world obligations tying them down from living their lives.

What I noticed the most about the Great Lakes during my time there is that I prefer them much more than the ocean, mainly because the fresh water doesn’t taste or smell as bad as salt water, yet the coasts are equally as beautiful, and you could never tell the difference between an ocean and one of the great lakes. While in Michigan looking out across the water, you can just as easily imagine that Spain or England are awaiting you on the other side rather than Wisconsin, because you can’t see a thing on the horizon besides water. And what I noticed the most about the Midwest in general is that it is a much better way of life out there than what I am used to, people are so much nicer, friendlier, more helpful, and carefree. Things are cheaper, yet better at the same time, and the majority of the Midwest has not been tarnished by commercialized corporations yet. It is definitely a good place to go in order to escape the stress of the northeast, to appreciate the true beauty of our country, and to value the true nature of kindhearted human beings. These are the reasons why I keep going to the Midwest so often, and why I will continue to keep on coming back again in the near future.

Summer Tour Blog, Days 44 through 52: Midwest Mini Tour {Chicago, Philadelphia, Indiana, Ohio, and more!}

After just taking a 6 week long trip around the entire country, doing an 8 day trip with my cousin Steve to the Midwest feels merely like a ten minute drive to the mall to me. However, this is the first time my cousin and I have done a trip like this together before, so I was more excited about sharing the experiences of the next week with him more than I was excited to see several new places along the way. Our first stop was to a city I have been to a handful of times but never truly had a great experience at or really appreciated at all: Philadelphia. The city of brotherly love has always left an impression on me quite the opposite of its nickname, and I visit it frequently since my brother lives only an hour away near Reading, Pennsylvania. Almost all of the major cities in the northeast (with the exception of Boston), seem to usually have a negative tone and aura to me, but I am always willing to give things another chance, so I was happy to see Philly with more optimistic eyes on this trip. On the drive there, we sadly had to drive through New Jersey, but as soon as we crossed the Delaware River into PA, we arrived into a town called New Hope, which proved to be a symbolic name for the town since we were introduced to massive amounts of “new hope” after happily leaving the “garden” state (one of the biggest misnomers I’ve ever heard). Anyways…back to topic…New Hope was a very impressive town with a “true” main street (something you don’t see too often in many towns anymore), and I definitely want to come back sometime in the near future to explore the shops, restaurants, parks, and people of this wonderful little town.

We arrived into Philly around 7 PM, and from the highway we saw some of the worst projects and ghettos our eyes have ever laid upon. A smokestack in one neighborhood had “nice town” or “nice ville” written on it, and for about 20 seconds I thought that was the most preposterous thing I’ve ever heard, but then I saw the surrounding neighborhoods nearby, which made the awful looking “nice town” look like Beverly Hills. We then got off the highway and instantly were brought back about 300 years in time. Directly in front of us were the Liberty Bell and Independence Hall. Seeing these two landmarks right next to each other definitely makes you appreciate the heritage and history that the former capitol of our country possesses. Just a week before this trip, I was in Philly with my nephew and took him to the Chapel Hill area of Philly, which is very pretty, as well as the famous Mutter Museum, which has a lot of anomalous things, such as skeletons with abnormalities, and so on, which was one of the most amazing museums I have ever been to. Philly is famous for its cheese steaks, so we went to the two most famous places in the city to get them: Geno’s and Pats. The two are completely opposite in appearance; Geno’s looks like something that belongs on the Vegas strip or in Times Square, and Pats looks like someone’s house, but they both serve generally the same thing and are both right across the street from each other, constantly staring at each other face to face. After tasting both of them, Geno’s won the taste test even though the place was too gaudy for my taste and the people who work there were pretty ignorant and rude (they have signs that say “speak English or leave” right on their window). We then washed down our food with some brews at the Darkhorse Bar (that’s right, I have a bar named after me in Philly!), and took a stroll down South Street before retiring for the night. Going to Philadelphia for the night definitely made me realize that I have a love / hate relationship with the city, it’s a place I don’t particularly enjoy that much, but something about it…maybe the history…maybe the cobblestone streets…or maybe the asshole-ish “I don’t give a shit attitude the people there possess…keeps bringing me back there time and time again.

The next day we stopped in Gettysburg, PA, which was a place I have never been to but have always wanted to check out. Now that I have checked it out, I never have a need to go back there again. It’s basically just a bunch of fields with cannons and statues, something that is probably important to see once in your life to pay your dues there, but no one should ever go there more than once in a lifetime. We then drove through western Maryland and made our way to Morgantown, West Virginia, where UWV is. It was truly a beautiful college town and university, and we went to a couple bars there and walked around the campus. I was truly impressed with the area, because even though I have been to West Virginia before, it was mainly just to drive through it and I never really stopped there to do anything, so I am glad that I finally did now and can’t wait to explore more of the state again soon.

After leaving there, we briefly went through Wheeling, West Virginia, which was a nice little town right on the Ohio border and we finally ended up in Columbus, Ohio at night time. Columbus is a little known city that I’ve been eager to explore for a long time, so I wasted no time and went right out on the town. We first checked out an area called Short North, which is a street lined with restaurants and bars. After barhopping there for an hour or so, we went to the Brewery District to barhop some more, and then stumbled on over to the German Village, which was a very nice, older part of town, with brick streets and beautiful older homes. Early the next morning, we walked around the campus of THE Ohio State University, which is the biggest college in the country. I was truly impressed with this area near the campus, as well as the entire city as a whole, and I’m glad we decided to make this city a pit stop on our trip.

After leaving Ohio, we were on our way to Chicago, the one big city in America that I have yet to investigate. My first impressions of the Windy City were very good; the night we got there, we walked around the Navy Pier, which is an area right on Lake Michigan that is very similar to Coney Island or Santa Monica, California. Usually I avoid tourist traps as much as possible when I go places, but since this was my first time in Chicago, I wanted to do and see the things here you’re “supposed” to see and do, just as a first timer in NYC would have to see the Empire State Building, Statue of Liberty, and Times Square. So, we decided to go the original Pizzeria Uno’s for some famous deep dish pizza for lunch, which was amazing, and then we went to Wrigley Field to catch a Cubs game, because I’ve always wanted to see their stadium. It is truly a beautiful and historic stadium and I was in awe to see it in person, and was shocked that it is practically in a neighborhood surrounded by apartments and bars. It was a hot day outside, so my cousin and I pounded down 6 beers a piece at the game, which probably cost over 100 bucks, and then went to a bar after the game to celebrate the Cubs 4-2 victory over the Pirates. At the bar, a random couple started talking to us and bought us drinks and shots, which of course we accepted, and when we told them we were from Connecticut, the girl had no idea where our home state even was, which was funny yet sad at the same time. After talking to them for about an hour, we all stumbled out of the bar and said goodbye to our new friends. At this moment, my cousin and I both got extremely sick and puked out our approximately 200 dollars worth of alcohol we had consumed in the past few hours. I passed out under someone’s staircase to the front of their apartment on a street, and my cousin passed out in an alley way nearby. We blacked out for about 3 hours before picking ourselves up off the ground and finding a random sketchy motel to randomly pass out in for the night. I was extremely thankful that the citizens of Wrigleyville just let us rest there in our own regret in peace, and it was nothing short of a miracle that we weren’t taken away in an ambulance or cop car instead. Of course, there was only one bed that we had to share at the motel, but it was still one of the most comfortable night’s sleeps I’ve ever had since I was so happy to be in a bed after a sloppy, embarrassing moment such as that. The next day we tried to get rid of our massive hangovers by walking along a couple beaches and Millennium Park and getting some fresh air. We capped off our time in Chicago by going to the Sky Deck of the Sears Tower (which is now called the Willis Tower), which is the tallest building in the country. The view from the top of the tower was breathtaking, and we watched the sunset 103 stories up from the ground, as well as walked on the glass floor where you can look straight down to the city streets, which was a great ending to a very interesting time in the city.

After leaving Chicago, we went to Indiana for 2 days, which is one of my favorite states in the entire country. We first went to West Lafayette to check out Purdue University, and then went to Indianapolis and walked around for a couple hours, which was a city I have never been to and was really impressed with. Lastly, we went to Bloomington, which is a town I fell in love with last year on my summer tour in 2008. I performed a show there the first night in town, at the same place I performed last year, and then we went to a couple of my favorite bars in town for an after party with some of my friends from the town, because apparently we hadn’t learned our lesson about booze in Chicago just a couple days earlier. The next day we walked around the campus of Indiana University, which is a place I might consider going to for my masters in Creative Writing / Poetry in the future, because I love the town and campus so much. We then spent the night with more friends at the local bars and restaurants that I wish I had the opportunity to go to every week instead of just once a year. Sadly the next morning, we left Bloomington and headed up to South Bend to check out the University of Notre Dame, which was a very beautiful campus that reminded me of an Ivy League school somewhat, and then spent the night in Grand Rapids, Michigan to visit a long time friend. Unfortunately, it rained out while we were there, so we couldn’t go check out my favorite beaches along the lake, but I did have time to visit the Meijer Sculpture Gardens in Grand Rapids, which is pretty much an outdoor art museum in a park, and it was very beautiful. We made our way to Cleveland, Ohio at night to watch an Indians game versus my favorite team, the Angels, which was fun since my cousin is a Tribe fan. We had great seats right behind the Halo’s dugout and I caught a foul ball, but sadly the Angels lost 11-3. Not to worry though, because my team is still in first place and his is in last place, so I didn’t mind that he got to enjoy a rare Indians win. That game concluded our trip, because we decided to just drive the 9 hours straight home instead of getting a hotel for the night, so we arrived back in Connecticut around 8 AM.

Even though this trip was really short compared to my previous one, we still managed to do and see a lot in a short period of time. I saw a lot of new places that I enjoyed and want to explore again soon, and if nothing else, it was a great bonding experience with someone who is both a family member and one of my best friends. Even though we literally managed to be both in the clouds and hit rock bottom within a 24 hour span in Chicago, they are experiences we will be able to look back on, laugh about, cherish, and tell our kids someday. With the conclusion of this trip though, comes the realization that my summer tour has also come to an end now, and my travel bug will have to be tamed for awhile until the open road calls my name again.

Tour Blog, Days 39 through 43: A Week Back in New England {there is no place like home…or is there}

I have a disease. That disease is called the travel bug. It’s been affecting me my entire life, but now it is controlling me full force. And the best part is, there are no signs of a cure anytime soon, and even if there was, I would want nothing to do with the remedy.

I finally arrived back to Connecticut after traveling around the country for 6 weeks, and before I even had time to do my laundry or check my mail, I was preparing to go back on the road again. However, this time, I was going to stay in my home area of New England, to see more of the area I grew up in, and attempt to gain a higher appreciation of my roots. The night of my first full day back in CT, a handful of my close friends and I met up in New Haven for a “welcome back home” gathering to go barhopping and people watching, two of our most favorite things to do. Before going on my trip to the west coast, I used to pride myself on being from the New Haven area, and was always excited to inform people of the true beauty, diversity, cleanliness, and nightlife of the city. However, after coming back “home”, it simply did not feel like home anymore…something was different to me…New Haven felt just like another city and not like a place I still belonged in; it’s special charm that used to light my eyes with excitement…now gone. Perhaps that bulb had burnt out because I have just recently discovered better, perhaps I have overstayed my welcome; perhaps this was a calling for me to pack my bags and find a new home. I have spent so much time in New Haven that I could close my eyes and name every restaurant, store, bar, and club on every street and probably even know a person or two in each place without seeing them. This is not the type of place I wish to still live in; I yearn for a bigger city where I can get lost and then try to find my way back home, while discovering new things and places along the way. So although New Haven did not feel the same to me after seeing the entire country, I was still happy to see familiar places with familiar faces for the time being. Before meeting up with my friends, my cousin Steve and I walked around the Yale campus and admired the beauty of the buildings, which never fail to amaze me no matter how many times I see them. We then grabbed some hamburgers at the world famous Louis Lunch, where the hamburger was claimed to be invented. The night was perfectly finished by washing our dinner down with some half yards of Molson at Richter’s Bar near the city’s green while sharing stories of my travels amongst my comrades, and then parading over to an Irish pub called Anna Liffeys to have some more brews for dessert.

Early the next morning I was back in the car again and off to Maine. Believe it or not, I have not been to Maine in about 11 years or so, even though it is only roughly 4 hours from my home, ergo, I was excited to finally be able to go back to “vacationland” to see it through adult eyes for the first time. Luckily, on my huge trip out west, I only saw rain for one night in a 6 week span, but on this mini trip around New England, Mother Nature was not so kind to me. I briefly walked around Old Orchard beach, which I can vaguely remember going to as a kid, and then arrived in Portland, where I had a show that night at the North Star Café. Before going to my show, I walked around the town in the pouring rain and had some clam chowder for dinner to warm me up, which New England, and especially Maine, is known for having the best of in the country. With soaked shoes, shirt, and all, I arrived at the venue for my show, and it actually turned out to be one of the best of my entire tour thus far; the crowd was pretty big and supportive, and I met some very interesting and kind people there, including a fellow poet all the way from Nicaragua. The next day I had really amazing Lobster Rolls (or Lobsta as we say it up in the northeast) at the famous Red’s Eats in Wicasset. I actually heard about this place originally because it is one of Andrew Zimmern’s most favorite places to eat in Maine, and of course I had to go there since I’m one of his biggest fans. I’m usually not a huge fan of lobster, but I guess that’s because I’ve never had lobster in Maine until now….wow was it amazing! The highlight of my time in Maine was still to come though, with the arrival to Bar Harbor to visit Acadia National Park. I have been to about a half dozen national parks this summer around the country, including Grand Canyon, the Badlands, Mount Rushmore, Carlsbad Caverns, and Petrified Forrest, and although Acadia may not have matched up to some of those other parks in the “awe and admiration” factor, it did possess some other attributes and characteristics that the other parks may have lacked a bit; a scenic drive along a beautiful ocean for one, beaches, and an breathtaking view on top of one of the highest points on the entire east coast. It is actually said that if you are on top of Cadillac Mountain in Acadia National Park during the sunrise, you will be one of the first people in the entire country to see the sun’s first rays in the morning…now isn’t that something neat? Unfortunately, I couldn’t be one of those lucky people since it was raining out again the next morning, but I was able to enjoy some sunlight both the evening before while on top of Cadillac Mountain, and later on the next day while driving along the coastline, going to the beach, and hiking on some of the trails in the park. After being in Maine for only 3 days, I cannot understand why it took me over a decade to come back here after my initial visit, but I can assure one thing…It will definitely be much sooner than that until I come back here again.

Subsequently, I made my way over to New Hampshire, where I had lunch in the scenic seaport town of Portsmouth, and then drove up to Mount Washington. I was really looking forward to being able to see the spectacular views from atop the summit, but once again, Mother Nature decided to punish me. I still decided to make the drive up since I came all the way there, and I’m glad I chose to do so. Even though I could not see more than 50 feet in front of me at any given time, the 8 mile drive up the mountain was still something very exciting to do. When I finally reached the summit over 6,000 feet from the Earth’s surface, I truly felt one with the clouds and gained a greater appreciation for the natural elements surrounding me. The cold rain beating down on my face and the angry wind pushing me back in my tracks was refreshing to me after almost melting alive in the deserts of southern Arizona just a couple weeks earlier. As I stood next to the “Mount Washington summit” sign and a red fox crossed my path only several feet away from me, I realized why New England is home sweet home to me, and how I love the fact that I can still be able to wear a jacket and freeze my balls off in July. Even though my reasons may sound crazy to some, I guess it’s one of those things that only Natives of the area would appreciate and enjoy. So although I was not able to see the views from atop the pinnacle, I was able to enjoy and appreciate the mountain in other aspects, and will definitely return to it again sometime during Autumn to see the views I missed this time.

Lastly, I drove down to Cape Cod, which, believe it or not, was one place I have never been to. On the way there, I quickly passed through Boston, which brought a smile to my face, because I plan on moving there in September for roughly 8 months or so, and it was the first time I have seen my future home since March. On the way down the cape, it was pouring again, but I guess my prayers to the rain Gods were finally answered, because the sun finally started to peek out from behind the stratus clouds once I arrived in Provincetown. I was very excited to finally be able to visit P-Town, because as I stated earlier, I love people watching, and what better place to do it than one of the largest homosexual communities in the country? I just got back from San Francisco, so I figured this would be a similar scene except in a smaller scale, but I must say, to my surprise, the people of Provincetown are a lot more open even than the people of San Fran. Both cities have the gay pride flags swinging off of every lamppost and street sign in the city, but I saw things in abundance in Cape Cod that was almost unapparent in the Bay Area, such as drag queens walking the streets and advertising shows they were putting on later that night, over flamboyant individuals eager to spark spontaneous conversations with unexpected (and possibly homophobic) tourists, and hundreds of couples holding hands and making out with no regards for PDA. Coming to places like this always makes me happy and gives me some faith in the world, because it’s great to see that cities such as Provincetown exist where people of any orientation or background can come and be accepted with no discrimination. It’s a shame more places like this couldn’t exist…but hey…when extreme right wing conservative jerks run and reside in the majority of the country, what else do you expect? So after my observations, Cape Cod was more enjoyable for people watching than San Francisco, because of the fact that P-Town is more condensed and “in your face” since it’s a much smaller area, even though San Fran by far is my top choice for favorite city, because the beaches and scenery and personalities and lifestyles of the people of the west coast are on a completely different plateau than on the east coast…sorry New England, the truth hurts sometimes : )

When deciding to take a trip around New England after just being around the rest of the country, I honestly had no idea what to expect, and now after arriving back to Connecticut, I’m still not quite sure how to process what I just saw. Did I just drive around my home area, or was it just another place on the map? Sure…New England allows me to relive the years of my youth and appreciate the area I grew up in…but at 22, do I really want to be rekindling the old flames of my past…or starting the new fires of my future? At this point in my life, I obviously have more questions than answers, and I think that many of these will never find a true answer until my final moments on this planet, but in a way, that’s the beauty of life, and these very questions are what keep me on the open road, searching for new places, for new homes, and for new pieces of myself. In just a couple weeks, I will be off to the Midwest to explore Chicago for the first time, as well as go back to Ohio, Indiana, and Kentucky, but until then (even though I’m not quite sure in the validity of my next statement), I will attempt my best impression of Dorothy from the “Wizard of Oz” and whisper to myself that “there is no place like home”.

Summer Tour Blog, Days 26 through 38: Albuquerque, Denver, South Dakota…and the journey back home

California was the most amazing place I have ever been to, and it felt like home to me, but sadly, I had to leave there and return back to my home (for now) in Connecticut. After wiping the tears from my eyes from the thought of leaving the great Golden State, I started to slowly make my way back to the east coast. This started with a 7 day stop in Albuquerque, New Mexico. My aunt and uncle live right in the city, so it was great to spend quality time with them during the 4th of July holiday and have them show me around the area. I also got to meet my two adorable little cousins Sierra and Sidney for the first time, and we all watched the fireworks together on July 4th, which was a great family experience. I also sampled a lot of traditional New Mexican food, including green chili, and some not so traditional items to the area, such as whole baby octopuses and amazing sashimi. I was quite surprised with the beautiful scenery of the area also, and every morning I would wake up to the breathtaking views of the mountains behind their back yard, and at night, downtown Albuquerque sparkled like a huge open treasure chest box full of diamonds and gemstones. I can’t wait to go back there in the near future to see the city and my relatives again.

After leaving New Mexico, I spent one night in Denver, Colorado, because I had a featured performance there. I was truly impressed with the beauty and cleanliness of the mile high city, but I personally didn’t feel like I was a mile above sea level, and even though I have asthma, I had no problems breathing there and felt no lack of oxygen. I left early the next morning and drove through Wyoming, where I stopped in Cheyenne for lunch. This was another city that I was impressed with, although it was a lot smaller and more desolate than Denver. I then made my way through western Nebraska, and truly felt in the middle of nowhere there, but the scenery there was also breathtaking, and I loved the feeling of driving on the open road with no one around. The mountains in Nebraska were also very beautiful and unique looking, which I definitely wasn’t expecting to see while driving through the state. I finally made my way to South Dakota later that night, where I stopped at Mt. Rushmore to watch the lighting of the monument, which was a very nice presentation. I went to Mt. Rushmore again early the next day to explore it some more and hike on some of the nearby trails. I am usually not a fan of man made monuments and parks, and usually prefer the natural better, but there was something about Mt. Rushmore that was so breathtaking in its beauty, and the elements of the natural and man made are so perfectly intertwined in that area, plus you can’t help but feel extremely patriotic while those four amazing presidents are staring back at you. After leaving there and driving through the Black Hills region, I made my way to Badlands National Park, which was a truly amazing area and reminded me a lot of the petrified forest national park in northern Arizona. I drove through the various mountains and hills there for about an hour while mountains goats and rams were right alongside my car, and then I made my way about 4 hours east to the town of Mitchell, where a very famous Americana attraction is, known as the corn palace. Basically, I don’t understand the point at all about this place, but I’ve seen it on the travel channel before so I figured I would check it out. It’s basically just a large building partially made out of corn and inside the building is a gift shop with tacky souvenirs. After leaving there, I spent the night in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, where I watched a very interesting laser light show on the river which had a narration about the town’s history.

The next day was a long day in the car, driving through states such as Minnesota, Iowa, Wisconsin, Illinois, Indiana, and Michigan. I spent the weekend in western Michigan with a long time friend, and we went to a few of the beach towns right along the Lake Michigan shore. I honestly was very impressed with that area of the state, and it truly felt like you were at an ocean and not just a lake. The scenery was very pretty and the shore towns reminded me of ones I would frequently see back home or in other New England states. The next day I briefly stopped at Kent State University in Ohio to see the memorial of the 4 students who were killed there during the famous shootings and protests, and then I spent the night in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. The following day, unfortunately, I saw the “welcome to Connecticut” sign for the first time in over 5 weeks, and even though I made it back to my home for now, I am really hoping and planning that this will not be my home for much longer, because as you can probably guess, I am a true vagabond and don’t enjoy spending too much time in the same place, ergo, 22 years in the same town in the same state is long enough for me. Where will I move next…Boston? San Francisco? Another country? Who knows….but until then, my travels will soon continue with a small tour up to Maine, New Hampshire, and Cape Cod next week. Good night…and travel well my friends.

Summer Tour Blog, Days 15 through 25: California Dreamin’ Becomes Reality

What makes a place good enough to be labeled “perfect”; is it the scenery, the people, the cities, the nightlife, the location, all of the above? Well, there is no such thing as “perfect”, but the closest thing to it is California. I have only dreamed of going to California since I was a kid, and finally at 22 years old, my dreams became true. I briefly spent two days in Las Vegas, Nevada before arriving to the Golden State, but I am not even going to talk much about my time in the Sin City, because I found it very over rated and, for lack of a better word, tacky. I live an hour from Mohegan Sun and Foxwoods so I felt no need to gamble in Vegas, and frankly, I like the Connecticut casinos better than the ones in Nevada. The only bright spots of my time there was seeing the comedian Carrot Top perform, and he was hilarious, eating lunch at the 5 star restaurant at the top of the stratosphere tower with its amazing view, and meeting up with a long time friend there one night, who later joined me to go to some beaches in the Los Angeles area later on in the week.

Ok, now back to my amazing time in California. My first four days were spent in San Francisco and the Bay area. The night I arrived there, I had a featured performance at a coffeehouse on the famous Haight Street, which was the hippie Mecca in the 60s and 70s. I was happy to finally be able to perform in California, because I have a huge fan base out there, plus it was always a dream of mine to perform my famous poem “California Clone” in the state it was written about. The show was a huge success, and the people I met there were some of the most down to Earth individuals that I have ever encountered (not to mention most of them were smoking weed right in the coffee shop!). Also during my time there, I explored the beaches and parks near the Golden Gate Bridge, met up with some long time friends in Berkley, visited Alcatraz, and enjoyed driving on some of the windiest and steepest roads in the world. I also went to Golden Gate Park (which is San Fran’s version of Central Park, except better), and saw Gavin Rossdale (the leader singer of Bush) perform for free, and during that concert, I noticed how chill and carefree all the residents of that area were, and how well I fit in around them. The second I stepped foot in SF I fell in love with it; the feeling I get in that city cannot be explained with words, but it felt like home there to me, and I am seriously planning on moving there in the near future.

I then drove along the Pacific Coast all the way down to Los Angeles, and the scenery of the coast along the way was unbelievable, in such towns as Big Sur and San Luis Obispo. I have never seen beaches and coasts with such amazing cliffs and rocks and sand dunes before, and it was truly breathtaking. When I finally arrived in LA, I explored most of the SoCal beaches, including Newport, Laguna, Hermosa, Venice, Malibu, Santa Monica, and Long Beach. Venice beach was amazing for people watching and I have never been to a place with both such eclectic people, yet beautiful scenery together as one.

Anyone that knows me knows that I am a huge baseball fan, and that I HATE WITH A PASSION the east coast teams that play near where I live. I have been a diehard Los Angeles Angels of Anaheim fan for the past 10 years, and I have always dreamed of going to a home game. Well, that dream became true this week also. I was literally in tears when I walked into Angel Stadium for the first time, because firstly, I was in awe of finally being there in person, but also because of the memorial to their pitcher Nick Adenhart in the front of the stadium who died in a car accident in April after being hit by a drunk driver. The memorial was a very touching sight to see, filled with Angel’s caps, rally monkeys, RIP signs, pictures of him, and other items. I paused there for a moment of silence before entering the stadium and going to my seats, which were right on the field directly behind the Angel’s dugout. I sat next to a really awesome guy from California who shared stories with me the entire time, and it was so surreal cheering on with a stadium of fans routing for the same team, because I am definitely not used to that when I go to Angels games in New York and Boston! When Vladimir Guerrero and Bobby Abreu hit home runs, the fireworks went off behind the center field wall as I was slapping high fives with everyone around me, truly an amazing experience I will never forget. The Angels beat the Rockies 11-3 that night, and I was happy to see my team get a win.

Sadly, while I was in LA, Michael Jackson had passed away, and the news was all over the place since I was right in the area. Now, regardless of what you think of his personal life, you cannot deny the fact that he was the king of pop and is one of the most amazing singers and performers of all time. He is truly an inspiration to many musicians and performers, including myself, and will be greatly missed. I stood in line for an hour to visit his star on the walk of fame in Hollywood to pay my respects, and then briefly visited the street his house is on in Beverly Hills, but the cops had it blocked off. I was truly impressed with how utopia like Beverly Hills seemed, everything about it was picture perfect, and I ended my time in Hollywood by taking my picture in front of the Hollywood sign in the hills. My final stop in California was San Diego, which I was also impressed with, while dining outside in the Gaslamp district and walking along the beach with the Mexico border in my sight.

Being a performer and traveling the country definitely has it perks, because I get to see the world while doing what I truly love, but it also has it cons too, because when you finally find a place that you could call home and could spend your entire life in, it is time to leave and go on to the next city and state. With that being said, I am extremely sad to leave the best state I have ever been to, but I will be back soon, and hopefully next time I am back, it will be to move here instead of just visiting. A very interesting thing happened to me while I was coming into California from Nevada; the state sign was missing so there was no official “Welcome to California” sign when I arrived! Obviously, this made me upset at first because my goal is to get my picture next to all 50 state signs, but California would have to wait till the day I actually left the state. But then I thought of the symbolism behind this; I will be seeing “welcome to California” the moment I am actually leaving the state, which to me shows that even though I am leaving for now, I am truly welcome back there whenever I wish, and that I never have to really say “goodbye” to the Golden State, because California will soon be my proud new home.

The beaches, the mountains, the forest, the hills, the big cities, the little towns, the food, the climate, the location…all these things make California amazing…but especially the people, their personalities and laid back attitudes, is what truly makes this state as close to perfect as one will ever find. I’ve been an East coast resident my entire life, and even though I have been on the west coast for only a little over a week, the Atlantic has nothing on the Pacific; the west coast is where it’s truly at, and it’s going to be hard to come back home and have it truly feel like home there anymore. California, I will be back soon, but until then, I’ll miss you and you’ll be in my dreams until I can make you become a reality again.

Summer Tour Blog, Days 10 through 14: The National Parks of New Mexico and Arizona

Dry…Hot…Silence…Serenity…Unworldly…Perfection. What I have experienced in the past few days in the deserts and mountains of the southwestern parts of the United States are beyond words, yet here I am writing a blog about it. Whatever is written in this blog will do my experiences no justice, because even a published poet and writer such as myself cannot describe the beautiful mix of tranquility and madness, the perfect blend of calm and chaos, the equilibrium of ugly and utopia, that I encountered in New Mexico and Arizona. In a nutshell, one must experience what I have for themselves in order to fully appreciate it, but I can only hope that these words and pictures will offer enough evidence to prove to you that some of the most amazing natural places in the entire world can be found in these two states.

After leaving my 3 night stay in Texas, I arrived into Carlsbad, New Mexico, where I spent several hours exploring the Carlsbad Caverns, which are the biggest caverns in the entire country. I opted to take the natural entrance into the cave rather than take the elevator down, so my journey began with a 45 minute walk through a zigzag maze all down a very steep 80 story decent to the bottom of the cave, which was very hard on the knees, but thankfully I’m doing this trip at 22 years old instead of 62. I have been to several caves throughout the eastern part of the US before, but the Carlsbad Caverns are unlike any other. Taking the natural entrance into the cave allows you to truly appreciate and comprehend the massive size of the cave, and the natural beauty of the various stalactites and stalagmites left me speechless. Spending several hours down there makes you forget what planet you are even on, because I have never seen anything else on planet Earth so surreal, yet magnificent at the same time that looks like the things I saw in the cave.



After leaving New Mexico, I was off to Arizona. First I briefly went to Montezuma’s Castle, where you can gaze through the windows of the past into one of the best preserved cliff dwellings in North America. This 20 room high-rise apartment, nestled into a towering limestone cliff, tells a 1,000 year-old story of ingenuity and survival in an unforgiving desert landscape. Marveling at this enduring legacy of the Sinagua culture reveals a people surprisingly similar to ourselves.

I then visited Petrified Forest National Park in Arizona. With one of the world’s largest and most colorful concentrations of petrified wood, multi-hued badlands of the Painted Desert, historic structures, archeological sites, and displays of over 200-million-year-old fossils, this is a surprising land of scenic wonders and fascinating science. This place is called “the painted desert” for a reason; the hills look like someone took a paintbrush and went over them with various shades of reds, oranges, blues, and grays. I said to myself that this was the most beautiful place I have ever been to, and that was true until I drove a little up north to the Grand Canyon.


When I walked to the cliff’s edge and saw the canyon spread out before my eyes for the first time, my jaw literally drop and I shook my head in disbelief as a tear of joy fell from my eye, because nothing this beautiful should even exist on this planet, it’s simply just not fair. Honestly, the Grand Canyon is probably just as big as or maybe even bigger than my entire home state of Connecticut, so I wish I had more than just a couple hours to see more of the canyon. But what I did see of it was the most beautiful thing my eyes have ever laid upon, and I will definitely be coming back in the near future to explore more of it for several days, including hiking down to the base of the canyon and whitewater rafting on the Colorado River. But for my first time there, I was quite content with just sitting on the cliff’s edge and taking it all in.


I was amazed and how drastically different the climate, scenery, and landscape alters in Arizona by just driving a little over an hour up north. In southern and central Arizona, there are many cactuses and sand covered mountains, yet up north, in Flagstaff and above, I felt like I was right back at home in New England or upstate New York, because of all the pine trees, greenery, snow covered mountains (yes, in June), and quaint little mountain towns. The beauty and diversity of Arizona impressed me a lot and I can definitely see why many people come here to live after they retire. Hell, I may have to retire extra early and move down here soon myself, because I fell in love with the state and didn’t want to leave.


Like I said before, there’s not much else I can say about my experiences at these 4 national parks, because words would not suffice the experiences. I can only try and let the pictures do some of the talking, but my only advice is to get out and explore these places for yourself, because you will then feel the way I feel and be enlightened, inspired, and awakened like I have to the true beauty and tranquility of the desert and mountains of the southwest. Out here, I was able to clear my head, but it was only filled with more questions about the origins of the planet, because I do not think that things this beautiful were made by accident over time; I think that some sort of a God out there must be an amazing artist, and He used the southwest as His canvas.

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Summer Tour Blog, Days 6 through 9: Everything is Bigger <and Better> in Texas!

There is a state where everything is BIG, and where personalities are larger than life. This state is known as Texas to some, and as cowboy country to myself and many other people from the north. I honestly had no idea what to expect prior to my arrival in the Lone Star state; a part of me assumed I would see just cowboys on horses sharing the highways with huge Ford trucks, attempting to run my little Toyota Camry I’m traveling in with a Connecticut license plate off the road. Another part of me was a little apprehensive of performing a show in this state (or even talking to many natives here outside of the cities) because of my previous notion of their conservative, over religious, and right wing beliefs, and how much that clashes with my own lifestyle and viewpoints. However, this is one state I’ve been wanting to explore for a real long time, so I did not hesitate for one second to cherish my time here.

About an hour after arriving into my hotel in Dallas, it started to downpour, so I sat in front of my hotel window all night and watched the most beautiful thunderstorm and lightning I’ve ever seen. The sky was orange, purple, blue, and black all at once, and lightning would stretch in the sky for miles before crashing to the ground. It was truly something magical and very inspiring to witness right before my very own eyes. The next day I woke up early to begin exploring the city, and had lunch at a fabulous place called Tillman’s roadhouse, which was voted for having the “best fries” in the city. The restaurant was not only beautiful inside, but it also had some really amazing food, and some pretty unique French fries. I then went downtown to visit the JFK memorial, and I was not impressed with it at all. It basically looks like a big white Lego block, and I felt like something nicer should have been showcased for such a great president who lost his life in that city. Then I thought to myself, if one of the George Bush’s got shot or killed, Texas would make a whole shrine or name a town after them, yet since JFK was a democrat, all he gets is a Lego block! I then went to a very nice area called Pioneer Park, which is a nice place to relax from the hustle and bustle of the city. I also treated myself to a new Dallas Mavericks shirt at the fan store in their arena since the Mavs are my favorite NBA team. Then a couple hours later I had my show, and I must say, that night was one of the best nights of my life. I’ve had much bigger audiences than the turnout that night, but the people that were there were really supportive and the whole group of us went out after for drinks at an English Pub (yes, an English Pub in the heart of cowboy country). There, I sucked down some bottles of Dos Equis and we all shared stories of our travels, of our love for poetry and spoken word, and how Yankee boys and Texans are all not that different from one another after all. That night will be one that I will never forget, and I was honored to be treated to such nice southern hospitality and Texas charm. In the midst of all the smiles, laughs, and stories being shared, one woman constantly turned to me and kept shouting in a joyful manner, “Welcome to Texas”….well, with the help of her and my other new friends, I definitely felt very welcome and almost at home.

The next morning I left Dallas to head to San Antonio. On the way there, I stopped through Austin to check out the University of Texas campus (which I was really impressed with) and an area in town called 6th street (which is a big nightlife, bar, restaurant, and entertainment area). When I arrived to San Antonio, I explored the world famous River Walk for awhile, sampled some Tex-Mex food, and just took in the beautiful scenery. I then walked over to the Alamo, which also had to be one of the most beautiful landmarks I have ever seen. Early the next morning, I briefly visited Mission Concepcion, then took a boat ride on the River Walk; the perfect, picturesque ending to a perfect time in a perfect state.

Overall, Texas surprised me in many ways. First off, I knew it was one of the biggest states in the country, but you don’t really have an appreciation or understanding of that until you drive through it. At some points I would be driving for 8 hours straight while looking at the very same sight (desert and mountains and oil pumps) with no signs of civilization at all, and even though this was extremely beautiful and serene, it also tended to be redundant at the same time. Moreso than the landscape, the people here surprised me more than anything. The negative stereotypes of the citizens here (from my experiences at least) are hardly true at all. The people of Texas are just simple folk who enjoy the good things in life, and the majority of the people I met here were not narrow minded or shoving Bibles in my face or extremely right wing at all. And even the people I met that I may not share the same views with, we embraced the things we had in common rather than dispute and debate over topics we disagree on, and as an outsider looking in, that’s more than I can ever ask for while coming to a new part of the country for the first time. In a nutshell, Texas was definitely one of the most diverse, interesting, fun, and just plain awesome states I’ve ever been to. I never thought I would say this in a million years, but I love Texas and I would actually consider moving down here at some point. Can’t wait to come back to the Lone Star state again, but until then, I continue my travels out west to New Mexico and beyond, and I will not rest until I can dig my toes in the sands of the California Coast. Adios and Gracias, Texas!

Summer Tour Blog, Days 4 and 5: final moments in Memphis, and cherished time in Mississippi, Arkansas, and Oklahoma

Very few people had such an impact in the world like Martin Luther King Jr. did. When I hear the word “hero”, his face is one of the first to always pop in my mind. Before leaving Memphis Monday morning, I stopped by the Lorraine Motel, where he was shot outside of his room on the balcony of room #306. The motel is obviously closed now for renting rooms out, and it is now part of the Civil Rights Museum. Walking up to the motel was one of the most eerie moments of my life. The motel itself feels like it’s haunted and it obviously has had no upkeep in over 40 years, but I think the look and condition of the motel at present day is the epitome of the tragedy that happened there in 1968. There is a very silent and depressing vibe outside of the motel also, and one can’t help but to shed of tear while staring at that balcony where a reef of flowers hangs in his honor.



After leaving there, I was on my way to Clarksdale, Mississippi, right at the crossroads of routes 49 and 61, which is often named the birthplace of Blues. I stayed at a place called The Shack Up Inn, which has to be one of the best kept secrets in the entire country. The entire inn is composed of about 10 different run down, vintage shacks, each of which used to be slave homes over 100 years ago. The only differences between the shacks from then and now are that electricity and running water were installed, as well as some more modern bedding; other than that, it’s about as “hick” of an experience as you can ever have. I stayed and had a photo shoot here last year also on my way to New Orleans, and it was one of the most interesting experiences of my life, so I decided to stop by again. I think the term “Southern Hospitality” was invented right here in Clarksdale, because of how nice the employees are at this inn, and I definitely found true inner peace and tranquility while relaxing on the front porch of my shack while listening to some Blues music, watching the Mississippi sunset, and sipping down a few beers. This is how life should be, and it’s a shame most people will never get to experience this beautiful way of simple and carefree living.

My next stop was Tulsa, Oklahoma, but on the way there, I stopped through Little Rock, Arkansas for lunch. I pride myself on knowing a lot about geography and various places, but I’ll be honest, Arkansas is a state I often overlooked and never really thought about visiting, just because I never really hear much about it. However, I quickly realized this state was a hidden gem, because the state has so many unique things to offer, from the natural hot springs to the Ozark Mountains to city and night life as well. I ate lunch at this great German restaurant in Little Rock and I wished I could have stayed longer, but I’ll definitely be back again in the near future to explore the state some more. I had my first show of the tour Tuesday night in Tulsa, OK, and it was a huge success. I was the co-featured performer at an open mic with Babs Martin, who is also an amazing musician and poet who I am a fan of, and the venue was packed and I got a lot of positive feedback, so I’ll definitely make plans to perform there again next year.



Now as I write this blog, I am staring out of my hotel window at the beautiful and impressive Dallas, Texas skyline. I just got here about an hour ago and I can’t wait to explore the city and perform at my show tomorrow night, so my next post will be coming this weekend and will talk all about my adventures in Dallas and San Antonio, Texas. Stay tuned!

Summer Tour Blog, Day 2 and 3: North Carolina mountains and Tennessee

Many people, including myself, have always wondered what a Heaven on Earth would look like. Well, I think I just found it in the Appalachian Mountains of western North Carolina. Driving through the blueridge parkway is an experience unlike any other. Everywhere you turn is a picture perfect postcard scene. All you can see is mountain ranges stretching on to the horizon, and the only sound besides an occasional passing car is the chirping of birds. I have never experienced true bliss and beauty like this before. The road is so high up in the mountains that you can literally touch the clouds. This is heaven on earth.

I started the day on Saturday by going to Grandfather Mountain state park, which offers the best views of the mountains and the area. There is a swinging walking bridge that is exactly 1 mile above the ground level, and the lookout cliff on the top of the mountain is almost 6,000 feet high! The view from the top is absolutely breathtaking and I could have easily spent the entire day there.


“The woods are lovely, dark, and deep, but I have promises to keep, and miles to go before I sleep, and miles to go before I sleep.”


After leaving the mountain, I began my 2 hour drive in the Appalachian Mountains to Asheville, North Carolina. Asheville is a very awesome, free spirited, liberal, artsy town in the middle of nowhere, nestled deep in the mountains. I briefly stopped here to people watch, grab a bite to eat, and bar hop. I can’t wait until I have the chance to come back here, because it definitely felt like home to me and I can see myself living there one day. On Sunday, I first drove to Nashville, Tennessee for lunch. I stopped by for a quick beer at the world famous Tootsie’s Lounge, where many famous country musicians and other celebrities are often spotted. The purple building definitely stands out among the rest on the street.


My main destination for Sunday was Memphis. I have been to both Nashville and Memphis last year on my 2008 tour, so I knew exactly what I wanted to see and where I wanted to go this year when coming here. I got to Memphis and went straight to Beale Street to enjoy what makes Memphis one of the most amazing and fun cities I’ve ever been to. Beale Street is basically the little brother of Bourbon Street in New Orleans, but it still has a lot to offer. The entire street is flooded with neon lights and live blues and country music is pouring out of every bar as you walk by. And best of all, you can drink outside on the street!


As I write this blog, I’m staring out of my hotel window and looking at the beautiful Mississippi river and the bridge going over it that crosses into Arkansas. That very bridge will take me to my next destination an allow me to continue my journey out west. My trip has barely begun, but I can already feel that I am at a place very far from home, and the memories from these past few days will be cherished for the rest of my life.

Summer Tour Blog, Day 1: Raleigh, Durham, and Chapel Hill, North Carolina

I’ve done trips and tours similar to this one plenty of times, so why does this one feel so different? Why does this one feel so special? This is my first time going out west, and ever since I was a kid, I dreamed of driving cross country to California, to dig my toes into the sands of the beaches of the pacific ocean, to see the deserts and Rocky Mountains, and to find the real America. Hours before leaving for my 40 day-long trip, it still hadn’t hit me that I was actually going to be away from home for such a significant period of time (previous tours never lasted longer than 17 days).



Around 7 PM I drove around town saying goodbye to some of my friends and family and promising them amazing and funny stories from my travels for when I return. I left my house around 8:30 PM and around 9 PM when I saw the welcome to New York sign, it finally hit me then that I wasn’t going to be in Connecticut again for a long, long time. A pleasant surprise awaited for me in New York City when driving through; fireworks were going off along the Hudson River and seeing those burst in the night sky with the picturesque George Washington bridge and New York skyline as a backdrop symbolized to me the epitome of beauty and amazing memories I would be having on this road trip.



I drove straight through to Baltimore, Maryland and met up with my long time friend / fellow spoken word artist Poet of Pain. He is the guy who produced and made all the music for my debut CD, and I wouldn’t be where I am in my career right now if it wasn’t for him. After driving all night, and seeing such odd town names in Virginia such as Triangle, Dum Fry, and Manassas (is that really pronounced “man asses”???) I finally arrived to the “welcome to North Carolina” sign as the sun began to rise. The main point of interest for day 1 of my tour was to sight see Raleigh and the Durham / Chapel Hill area. I’ve been to North Carolina many times but for some reason have never been to this area of the state, and I’ve always wanted to see UNC and Duke. I was really impressed with the beauty of Duke’s campus and honestly, the architecture is so impressively magnificent and majestic there that it made Yale look like a community college. University of North Carolina was really enjoyable also because of a nice park it had on campus and also because of how college oriented the town of Chapel Hill is right near the campus. The college town reminded me of Bloomington, Indiana a lot (where University of Indiana is), so I instantly fell in love with it, and all the little bars, cafes, stores, and restaurants that made up the area really bring life and energy to the town and college, and make it a must stop visit for any young adult.



I ended the night by attending a festival called “first Friday” in downtown Raleigh, which (as the name suggests) takes place on the first Friday of every month, and it pretty much is an excuse for the town to go wild, party, and drink, which equals fun times in my book. To make a long story short, good times were had, and new friends were made.